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Sunday
1
April
Visitation
1:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Sunday, April 1, 2007
Norman Dean Home for Services, Inc.
16 Righter Avenue
Denville, New Jersey, United States
Monday
2
April
Mass of Christian Burial
9:30 am
Monday, April 2, 2007
St. Pius X R C Church
Montville, New Jersey, United States
Service Time: 09:30 AM
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Joseph Roman posted a condolence
Friday, March 22, 2019
Miss you Scott and you are always in our prayers and thoughts. Love Cousin Joe
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Jean Wood posted a condolence
Friday, March 14, 2014
Hi Scott, thinking about you a lot today. Had dinner in Fl with your Mom and Dad on Brookes 23th birthday. I am sure you are very proud of her. She is beautiful inside and out. Your parents still miss you so much. I think it is still so hard for them to deal with the fact that you are gone. As it is for Andrea and the kids. They all love you so much and miss you so much. i just wanted to leave you a note to let you know that you are very loved, and missed by so many. Jeannie
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MOM AND DAD posted a condolence
Saturday, November 24, 2012
OUR DEAREST SCOTT LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH. YOU ARE ALWAYS IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. HAPPY THANKSGIVING IN HEAVEN. WE WENT TO JOANN AND FRANKS WITH ANDREA AND THE KIDS. ALWAYS KNEW HOW MUCH YOU ENJOYED THAT MEALAND LOVED TO CARVE THE TURKEY.WE MISSED YOU. WEATHER IS GETTING COLD AND IT I S VERY WINDY.YOU WOULD LOVE HANGING AROUND WITH YOUR FAMILY. XOXOXOXOXOXMOM AND DAD. LOVE YOU FOREVER.
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Dearest Scott, miss you and wish you were here to celebrate your fathers 75th Birthday going to the Manor with Andrea and the kids. Your favorite place. We will have you in our hearts as usual. Love You Forever xoxoxox. Mom and Dad. Watch over your beautiful children.
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Sunday, April 8, 2012
Happy Easter in heaven to our dearest son. Love You and miss you very much.Think of you every day and pray for you every night.Hope you are at peace. Andrea is coming over with the girls and boys for the Easter egg hunt after church.We are going to JoAnn and Franks for dinner.Wish you were here. Keep watch over your beautiful family. Love You Forever. Mom and Dad xoxoxoxoxoox.
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Thursday, March 29, 2012
To Our Dearest Son Scott,it has been 5 years since your gone and not a day goes by that we don't think or talk about you. We have the fondest memories of you and we couldn't do this without your beautiful family. You would be so proud of them. Andrea has been doing a great job raising them, she is a very ggod mother.Please keep watching over them.We love you and them very much.xoxoxoxo
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Joseph Roman posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Hi Scott,
We have been thinking of you. I was so glad to hear that Brooke was on the Deans list. I also saw Brittany recently and she is doing great and Nicholas is looking at Colleges. We miss you and I remember all of the great times we shared and the advice you gave me.
Love Joe
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Dearest Scott, It has been awhile since I wrote to you, but that does not mean that you are not in our thoughts and prayers everyday. Nicholas was home for a few days he really looks good.He seems to be doing well. William is always busy with all his sports, he keeps Andrea hopping. Brroke will be 21 next week. Brittany is always busy,going to school and work. Brooke was on the Deans List.Andrea and William are coming to Fl. after Easter.Then we are plkanning a trip to Hawaii in July,it is their favorite place that you used to take them. They have great memories and we are trying to keep them of you. Love you forever. Mom and Dad.xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Dear Scott, Happy Thanksgiving we Love you and miss you very much especially this time of year. this is one of your favorite holidays But we had a great surprise yesterday Andrea brought Nicholas home and surprised us. He looks great.So nice to have him home for a few days. He has to be back Saturday. But at least we have him here for your favorite holiday.William had an operation on the beginning of the month for his ear. It was 4 1/2 hrs. Thank God he is doing fine.Well the only thing missing will be you, but you are always in our hearts, just keep watching over your beautiful family. Love You Forever xoxoxoxoxoxo Mom and Dad
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Sunday, June 19, 2011
Dearest Scott, We want to wish you a Happy Fathers Day in Heaven.We wish you were here to see and be with your children and us, but we know you are with us in spirit and watching over everyone. That could keep you pretty busy. It is very hard for the children and Andrea and of course us too. We Love you very much and think about you every day. Keep everyone safe.xoxoxoxoxoLove you forever. Mom and Dad.
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Dear Scott, Happy Easter in Heaven, we miss you dearly. I know you are happy in a beautiful place. We had a great Easter with Andrea and the kids in Florida. They went home on Monday they had a great time and great weather.They love you and miss you very much. Love you forever Mom and Dadxoxxoxoxoxo
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Gail Bellog posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Sadly missed. I miss talking to you on the phone.
Love your cousin Gail.
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Joanne Pearn posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Hey Scott,
You should be here with us preparing to go down the shore. I think of you on Sundays. Maybe because we used to visit you in West Orange on that day, or I phoned you while walking my dog in the park on that day. You were a special person and it was always fun to be in your company. Heartbroken for your family who misses you so much.
They say everyone looks 33 years old in Heaven. We were all pretty hot-looking at 33.
Something to look forward to.
Hope your getting this and it makes you smile. Say hello to the card club.
Love you cousin.
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Monday, March 28, 2011
Dear Scott. Happy 4th anniversary in heaven. Love you and miss you. Wish you were here. All our love always, love you forever. Mom and Dad.
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Friday, January 28, 2011
Dearest Scott, We went to the cemetary to li8ght a candle, but the snow would be over my knees. So we had to leave but we were there. Hopefully before we go to Florida we can get there. We have just had so much snow it is incredible. We Love you very much and miss you. Never stop thinking of you. Love You Forever. Mom And Dadxoxoxoxo
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will posted a condolence
Monday, January 3, 2011
hi dad,
i am thinking about you a lot.i looked in the gun safe the other day and wish you were here to teach me how to shoot.i wish i could remember how your voice sounds. i miss you. nick is getting a tattoo about you. jack was fat but lost weight and is getting an operation this week. love you dad.
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Saturday, December 25, 2010
To Our Dearest Son,We miss you very much never stop thinking about you. Andrea was here with the kids for christmas breakfast and to open all our gifts. Everyone was happy, but they still have to talk about you. Nicholas wants to get a tatoo with angels wings and your name.We a re going to their house for dinner and then to Tommy and Lori's. Yesterday went to Tommy and Lori's and then to Joann and Franks. Everyone misses you. I got Birthday wishes from so many people on facebook and still remember our Christmas Eve part and all the Happy Memories we have. Merry Christmas And Happy New Year in heaven with angels, Love You Forever. Mom And Dad.xoxoxoxooxoxoxoxooxoxoxo
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Friday, November 26, 2010
Dear Scott, Happy Thanksgiving we missed you, we know it was one of your very favorite holidays. You loved the whole meal, especially carving the turkey.We didn't go anywhere because I had a knee replacement in August and it would be hard for me to walk around. William says that I owe him and Nicholas 2 vacations now. We had dinner at Tom and Lori's and then went to Di'Pasquales after.Wish you were here to be with us. Watch over your family and keep them safe. Love You Forever xoxoxoxoxoxo
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andrea posted a condolence
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Hi Scott,
Haven't written in awhile but doesn't mean I don't think about you. Everyday the kids talk about you. Lots of memories. It's been a long time since you're gone...time is flying. Kids are growing.
Life passes by way too quickly. Hope you are finally at peace. We all love you. (this is my favorite pic of you) XO
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Our Dearest Scott, Roses grow in heaven, Lord pick a bunch for me. Place them in my sons arms and tell him the're from us. Tell him that we love and miss him , and when he turns to smile, place a kiss upon his cheek and hold him for awhile. Because remembering him is easy, we do it everyday. There's an ache within our hearts that will never go away. Love you forever Happy Fathers Day Mom and Dad
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Our Dearest Scott, We hope you know how much you are loved and missed every day. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you. Not a day goes by that you are not remembered. Your children love and miss you more than you will ever know. Last night we took Brittany and Nick out for dinner. On the weekend we went to Penna. and had a good time. Andrea went to the shore with the kids. We had a new stone made for Nanna and Popsy, it came out great, there stones were sinking.
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nick posted a condolence
Monday, May 10, 2010
dad things move slow as i write this. i wish you were here. i cant imagine how different things would be if you were still here. will broke his wrist the other day and is getting his cast on tomorrow. things move slowly without you. i wish i could have the days backwhen we could do thing together. nothing will ever beat thoes days or ever come near theyre meaning to me. RIP DAD.
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MOM AND Dad posted a condolence
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Dearest Scott,Today is Sunday and we are still in Florida, will be going back Wed. the 21st of April. Have been here for a month, Had Andrea, Brooke, Nicholas and William here for 8 days. Brittany came down by herself for 6 days.We had a great time with them. They are all growing up so fast, you would really be proud of them. April 26th is Brittanys birthday she will be 22. Love you and miss yyou very much,not a day goes by that you are not in our thoughts and prayers.xoxoxoxoxoxoMom and Dad
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Joan posted a condolence
Monday, March 29, 2010
I think of you and I think of how much your parents miss you. Mom & Dad are doing a wonderful job helping Andrea & your children since you left us. God Bless You!
Love,
"Joanie"
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Saturday, March 20, 2010
Dearest Scott, Tomorrow it will be 3 years, since your gone but not forgotten. We will never forget you and your loving ways. Tonight William is sleeping over , he reminds us so much of you , and Nick does to. Brooke turned 19 on March 13th and is doing good, and Brittany will be 22 on April 26th. The years are flying by . We hope you keep watch over your beautiful family. Pray for you and miss you, not a day goes by that we don't think about you, You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Love you forever Mom and Dad
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Our Dearest Scott,Today is your 49th birthday and we miss you dearly. We went to the cemetary this morning to light a candle we haven't ben there in about 3 weeks because we were in Fl. just got back yesterday. Tonight Dad and I are going to the club with Andrea and the kids to celebrate your birthday. Eaveryone misses you and has great memories of you. My friend Dottie from Calif. called for your birthday, she remembers when you were born. I worked with her when I got married 52 years ago, but she never forgot. You are always in our hearts we love you very much. Hope you have a wonderful peaceful birthday in heaven. Love you forever Mom and Dad x0x0x0x0x0x0
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MOM and DAD posted a condolence
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Dearest Scott, Today is christmas eve, and it is very sad that you are not here with us. My heart just breaks knowing you are not with us for the holidays. We miss you more than you can imagine. We love you and think about you every day.The holidays are not the same without you. Love you forever please watch over your beautiful family. xoxoxo Love
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Dearest Scott, Today is Sunday Dec. 20 one week after William's 9th birthday. Yesterday we had a snow storm but it looks beautiful and last night we went to the club for dinner with Andrea and the kids. We had a great time and wish you were with us.Tomorrow we will stop at the cemetery to see you and light a candle. Christmas is rolling around really fast and the kida are all excited, especially William. Well we hope you have a special christmas in heaven, watching over all of us especially Andrea and your beautiful children. Love you forever and Miss you very much xoxoxxo
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Nick posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
hi dad. i always think of you. i always think of all teh good times we had. like when we were in hawaii or when we were in florida. times are moving fast. but i alwaswy think of you.
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Mom and Dad posted a condolence
Friday, November 20, 2009
Dearest Scott, Love you and miss you very much, now that the holidays are coming. We know how much you loved the holidays, especially the food.Your family is growing in leaps and bounds. William is going to be 9 Nicholas turned 15 and the girls are doing fine. Well our tree is up and the train thanks to william and it isn't even Thanksgiving. We will miss you as always but you will always be in our hearts. Happy Thanksgiving in Heaven. Love Mom and Dad
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MOM and DAD posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Dearest Scott, Not a day goes by that we don't think about you and remember all the good times we had when you were growing up.Now we are reliving them through your children.Each one is special in their own way. We had a great time with them in Vegas and Hawaii, but everything is always about what you did with them. You are a tough act to follow. Nicholas and William are playing football and have your #34, Brittany is always working and very busy, Brroke is at Caldwell College and seems very happy, she has grown up a lot. We are very proud of them all. Andrea is a great mother you really picked a good one, we love them all. Love you forever Mom and Dad
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Joseph Roman posted a condolence
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Scott,
I miss you and I know that you are up in heaven looking out for us. I play my piano and I think of you when I play With of Without You from U2. I'll be praying for you and I hope you hear my prayers because we all miss you.
Love Cousin Joe
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Monday, August 31, 2009
dearest scott,dad and I have taken andrea and the children to vegas and hawaii, we had a wonderful time. Everything we do is wonderful but not quite the way you did it.We are so glad that we took them and we were altogether, because everyone is growing so fast. Brittany finished her school, Brooke is at college now, life keeps changing. Nicholas and William are playing football, the boys are growing up fast, we wish you were here to enjoy them all, you would be so proud of them. They love you very much and no one can ever take your place. Dad and I are going to go to the cemetary in alittle while to light a candle for you. We love you and miss you very much. Love you forever
Mom and Dad
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Nick posted a condolence
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Hi dad football is finally starting and so far im starting both ways and im doing amazing i wish you were still here to see how i played in my scrimmage the other day i had atleast 5 huge tackles. Maggie and Paggie helped me out with buying a brandnew quad and im loving. We went to hawaii about a month ago and every second i thought of you and how life changes every second and how id give anything to go back to that 2nd trip to hawaii. I miss you so much i would give anything to go back and see u for one day. I will never forget you 1/2 of my day im thinking of you and all the good times we had together like throwing a baseball around in your yard or riding the 6 wheeler around in the woods with you. Everyday was another adventure with you. You never let bordem ruin a fun time you always thought of somthing fun or funy to do at the time. Ever since you left thing are never the same. Whenever i pass your old house i almost imagine us playing with will in your yard everytime i pass and everytime it happens im still 12 almost like time has never changed. I have to go dad. I will never forget you.
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Monday, July 13, 2009
dearest scott,just wanted to fill you in on our adventures, with andrea and the girls and boys. we are back from our vegas trip which was a great hit, everyone had a ball. nest monday is our trip to hawaii, because that is where their dad took them and they want to go back and relive all the memories they had with you. we love you and miss you very much and they never stop talking about you. william is on the travel team and his position is catcher, first baseman, and right field, sometimes he pitches too! he usually sleeps over at least one night a week he really is a trip, he has a memory like an elephant. yesterday was our 51st anniversary tommy and lori took us to the manor, wehad a great time it brings back a lot of great memories. miss you every day and love you forever. keepwatching over all of us especially andrea and the kids.
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
dearest scott, well a lot has gone on this month between williams communion,nicholas graduation, brookes prom and graduation, and their graduation party. we also went to penna. for sandras graduation party, and dad took william to a yankee game in scranton and they had a half hour of fireworks, that he loved.sunday we are taking them to vegas, this week nick is gone to football camp for four days in e. stroudsburg.william has travel baseball almost every ssingle day, he is also doing rec. from 9 to 3 they all have very busy schedules. the weather has been very rainy and unpredictable. happy fathers day, we were at the cemetary on sunday to see you. wish you were here to share in all the activities, you would love it. we miss you very much and are always in our thoughts and prayers. brooke is lifeguarding at the lake and brittany is still in school, but passed her boards and also does babysitting. you would really be proud of them. so just keep watching over them and keep them out of harms way. love you forever mom and dad
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momand dad posted a condolence
Thursday, June 4, 2009
dear scott, we just got back from nicholas's graduation mass and breakfast. st pius does a beautiful job with all the ceremonies, tomorrow is the graduation and dinner following. youwould be so proud of him. tomorrow is also brook,s prom. they are really beautful shildren, growwing up fast. please watch over them, so they stay safe. love you forever mom and dad
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Monday, June 1, 2009
dear scott, yesterday William made his first holy communion. you would be so proud of him. he reminds me so much of you.he carried the wine down and we were so proud of him. Andrea had a party at the montville inn for him and got him a trampoline, daady and frank and williamm put it together with toms help. when they got done he made andrea go on it and even jo-ann went on it.he was having the best time wish you were there, but i know you were with us.the mass was a beautiful childrens mass and he had a great suit and tie on he is just so cute. nicholas was sick so he didn't come and he had a fever, but he is feeling better today. love you forever mom and dad
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Friday, May 22, 2009
DEAR SCOTT,Today is the beginning of memorial weekend weare going to Pa. to see everyone, we haven't been there in a long time. Everyone really misses you and we wish you could be with us. We will stop to see you before we go. Miss you very much and love you, talk to you again soon. Love you forever Mom and Dad
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Brittany posted a condolence
Monday, April 13, 2009
Hey Daddy-
We are all in florida and we miss you.. We were talking about all the fun and crazy times we had with you in the past yesterday. It was a good time! Miss you!
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Nick posted a condolence
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Dad, i really thought you were invincible. Whenever you broke a bone or went to the hospital I knew you would be fine. However the last time the outcome was different. All the good memories i had with you like lighting off all the those fireworks in hawaii then running from security. One of my favorite memories i ever had with you with all ways be the day you bought your six wheeler and it just showed up at our house randomly one day...another great memory with you was when we were in florida and bought all the fireworks. Dad, i could spend i lifetime remebering all the goods times we had together. Everyday i think to my self aout you, and i wish we could have spent more time together then we did. Although we were together alot. It seems like just yesterday you left. Things have changed alot. I always think of you. watch over me.
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Sunday, April 12, 2009
DEAREST SCOTT, We want to wish you a very happy and blessed easter in heaven. It's been two years since you left and everyday we think about you and your loving ways. Andrea and all your children are here with us, reminding us every day what you did with them, they never forget you, and neither do we. You are always with us wherever we go.Love you forever Mom and Dad
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Joan posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Spoke with your parents earlier this week and I was happy to hear they are coping as well as one can expect. Thank God for the children you and Andrea gave them.The four of them are a gift from you that keep on giving and I believe the children give Mom & Dad a reason to go on living without you here.They miss you so much. God Bless You.
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2009
dearest scott, It's two years today that you left us. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you or have you in our conversations. We have so many happy memories, the kids love to hear any story about you. We still can't believe your gone. Andrea is coming to Florida for easter with all of your beautiful children, they are growing so fast. Tonight we are taking them to the Grasshopper for your anniversary. We took Brooke to the manor for her 18th birthday dinner, that's her favorite place because you always took them there. They never forget you. We all love and miss you with all our hearts. Happy Anniversary in heaven. Love you forever, mom and dad.
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Friday, March 13, 2009
dearest scott, Today is brookes 18th birtday. We don!t know where the time has gone. wish you were here, we are in Florida , when we get back we are taking them to the manor that!s where she wants to go for her Birthday dinner. every memory is always where they went with you as a family, they never forget you,and neither do we. Love you forever and miss you every day.
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nick posted a condolence
Monday, March 2, 2009
Hi dad i havent lit a candle in a while. Im 14 now i have changed a lot since we last we hanging out at your house which seemed to be just yesterday but was really 2 years ago now. Not a day goes by that i dont think of you and all the funny times we had together. Like when we were in hawaii and we went for a ride in the helicopter and all ther other memories we had that il never forget. I started both ways in football this year as middle linebacker and guard. I made a ton of tackle and i was in on every single play. Every year you wanted me to play football i wouldnt. Im so mad i had to wait. I couldve learned so much from you. Football is now my favorite sport and i cant wait to play as a freshman this up coming season. I no that you are watching over me when ever i sack the quarter back or make a huge hit.I have to go now...by dad.
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Dear scott, today is valentines day,and we want to wish you a happy valentines day in heaven. Miss you more than you know.Never stopped loving you for a minute,you are always in our thoughts and prayers. please watch over your beautiful family and keep them safe. Love you forever mom and dad.
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
dear scott, not a day goes by that you are on not on our mind. We miss you so much, it just breaks our hearts not to have you with us, and your beautful family.You will never be forgotten. Love you forever.Mom and Dad
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Brittany Roman posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
You would have been 48 tomorrow, Happy Birthday. I miss you everyday-
"anything loved can be lost"
Love you always
Brittany
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ANDREA posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
HI SCOTT, MISS YOU SO MUCH. THINK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME. AS A MATTER OF FACT..EVERYDAY.THE KIDS ARE DOING WELL. NICK HAS GROWN AND CHANGED SO MUCH. YOU WOULD BE SO PROUD OF HIM.HE HAS SUCH AN OUTGOING PERSONALITY AND A GREAT WAY ABOUT HIM..JUST LIKE YOU.WILL IS HAPPY AND GETTING BIG AND REALLY GROWING UP.THE GIRLS ARE GOOD..BROOKE GRADUATING THIS YEAR AND MAKING DECISIONS ABOUT COLLEGE. BRITTANY IN SCHOOL AND DOING WHAT SHE LOVES.ITS SO NICE HAVING ALL THE KIDS HOME WITH ME..I KNOW IT WON'T LAST TOO MUCH LONGER SO I'M TRYING TO ENJOY EVERY MINUTE.BE AT PEACE AND WATCH OVER US. WE LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU CAN IMAGINE. XO
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william posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
happy birthday dad,i miss you.i played football and im playing baseball soon.i might play all the years in a row till 8th grade.do you think i should wrestle?did you meet new people that you never new in heaven?we have so much snow this year, you would love it.once i was sleigh riding down the driveway and kept going thru the lawn and almost to the street below ours.i grabbed onto a rock and jumped off the sled to stop myself. it was so much fun.i wish you could take me for a ride on your 6 wheeler. i love you dad. love,will
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MOM andDAD posted a condolence
Monday, January 19, 2009
Dearest Scott, dad and I just want to wish you a happy 48th birthday in heaven. We went to the cemetary to light your candle. We wish you were spending your birthday with us. Miss you every day, you are in our thoughts and prayers. You always were and always will be the love of our life.So sorry you had to leave us so soon. Thank you for all the wonderful memories,and the beautiful grandchildren you gave us. Keep watching over them and Andrea and keep them safe. Love you forever Mom and Dad.
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Nick posted a condolence
Friday, December 26, 2008
Hio dad. I havent written a candle in awhile. I Started middle linebacker and guard this year in football. I was also the fastest one on my team. Not a day goes by where i dont think of you.
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Chuck posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Yo Bro, Just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas.REST IN PEACE
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Monday, December 22, 2008
MY DEAR SCOTT, not a day goes by that we don't think about you or talk about you.The kids love to hear stories about you and look at pictures of you. Christmas is coming and we wish you were here to be with us and the children you would be so proud of them. We took the boys to Berlin and Prague for thanksgiving we had a great time but everyday had to be a story about you.The girls love you and miss you they are beautiful and the boys are handsome,they remind us so much of you.You left us with so many happy memories,being around them is like reliving your chilhood days.We love you very much our thoughts and prayers are always with you. Merry Christmas in Heaven.
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andrea posted a condolence
Monday, October 27, 2008
just thinking about you...havent written in awile. not a day goes by that i don't think about you. so many things remind me of you and our past. you would be so proud of all the kids. nick and will both wear your number..so many people on the field tell me how much nick reminds them of you. you cant begin to imagine how much you're missed. xoxo
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Joan posted a condolence
Friday, September 19, 2008
I've been thinking of your Mom all day today. Please watch over her.....she misses you.
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mom posted a condolence
Sunday, August 24, 2008
my dear scott, there is not a day that goes by that i don!t think about you and pray for you. my heart just breaks that your not here to see your beautiful children. you would be so proud of them. I miss your smile and your voice and your laughter. I love you with all my heart.
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Joseph T. Roman posted a condolence
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Scott,
We'll summer is flying by and I am so busy it seems. When I feel any stress from work I think of the great discussions we used to have about projects, business, deals etc. I really miss having you to drive around with and just generally spend time and with to bounce ideas around etc. I hope you are well in heaven and your family seems to be doing great. Your Mom showeed me Brooke's prom pictures and she loooks all grown up, you would eb so proud I am sure if you were here with everyone. Now that I am a Dad for 14 months I realize how strong of a person you were to manage having 4 children and maintaining work and everything else. You were in many ways a superman and you always had time for a discussion with me (which I'll never forget) Anyway please keep praying for us and I want you to know we miss you and you will always be in our hearts. Love Joe
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Michele posted a condolence
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Scott, it's your sister-in-law again. Just wanted to tell you something. I have a new apartment, a condo I bought in Jersey City, close to the Path train for commuting to my job in Manhattan, at the flower shop I always loved and am back at for over a year and a half now. Well, I have photos up of everybody, and one of the main photos is a frame of you, Brit, Brookie and Nick in Central Park on a Fall day you guys came into Manhattan to see my apartment and have lunch. That photo is such a good one in so many ways, mostly, though, because it's of you and the kids when they were little, and things were a bit better. The kids are so happy in that photo with you in Central Park. William wasn't born yet, An wasn't even pregnant with him yet. Behind that photo I have the little prayer card for you that Brittany read so eloquently and bravely twice during your services. When I was looking at that card and that photo of you just now, Sunday morning, May 18, '08, I had to kneel down on the kitchen floor and gasp, it knocked the wind out of me with grief for you, Scott. Our lives were altered forever when you left us, Scott, but I know you are with God and at peace. I just wish you found it here with us. I know you wanted to and really tried at the end of your time here. We love you forever and miss you. We are bereft with grief. We love you, Scott. -Michele
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Michele posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Scott, brother-in-law. I think of you, and the shock of your loss to us knocks the wind out of me. When I look at this obit, I'm shocked that it's you I'm looking at. Scott, I wish to God I stayed closer with you after you and Andrea split up. And I'm so, so sorry that it came to that, that you two broke up. And it wouldn't have happened if it weren't for the horrible disease, and what it does to people. IT took everything from you. I'm so sorry, Scott, that it got the better of you. I'm so very sorry, and I'm so sorry that the last few months were so hard and bleak for you. You really, truly tried to get well at the end. Our hearts are broken over and over again over that. WE are bereft with grief for you, Scott. Bereft at your loss. Frank, David, my Mom and I feel that no loss and nothing else we've ever dealt with begins to compare with losing you. We say it all the time. We talk about you and break down about you ALL THE TIME, SCOTT. I don't think you ever knew that, because of the disease. I'm that much sorrier that I wasn't a better friend to you after you and An split. Scott, I didn't know what to do. YOu and An were in the thick of it, it was such a mess, we were trying to do what An and the pros at rehab and in AA thought was best. It was such an awful time, and, dear Scott, you made it very hard sometimes to talk to you, but not once, not ever, did any of us ever stop loving you and never once did we not think of you as our brother-in-law, An's husband and the kids' father. We wanted you to get better for yourself and the kids and An, Scott. I know you didn't know it, but we loved you as much as we love every one of our family. That's how we feel about your mom and dad, too, and our hearts break when we put ourselves in their shoes for one second. Scott, please know how much you are loved and missed. Peace be with you, my friend and brother-in-law always. We're so lucky to have had you in our lives, and so lucky to have your children with us. WE love you Scott. Always your sister-in-law, Michele
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Jo-Ann DiPasquale posted a condolence
Monday, May 12, 2008
Dear Scott, Frank and I miss you so much!!!!! I wish you could be here with us. The shore house is coming along so nice. You would love it so much. Remember how much you loved being there???? I do. It breaks my heart knowing you're not with us!!!! We will always love you so much and we miss you!!!We love you!!!!
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Joann & Michele posted a condolence
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Scott, we're thinking of you always,and we mean ALWAYS. Scott, we love you so much,and hope to God you knew it then and know it now, where you are with God,the extent of our love for you. You are as big a part of our family as any one of us. We talk about you and about any random memory, from something significant to the littlest thing. ANd we break down every time,because we so strongly feel the loss of you. Mad & Joe are such an important part of our lives and our family. We love them so much, too, and wish you were here with us. YOu left us way too soon, Scott, and I know that you really worked hard at the end to fight and win this terrible burden. If only it could have been won. May God shine his light on you, and know we love you. Love, Joann and Michele
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Joseph T. Roman posted a condolence
Friday, May 2, 2008
ScottBo,
I know you are up there having a great time. I've been thinking about you a lot lately and I am sure that it's you just reaching out to me to say hello. Things are well here and I'm spending as much time as possible with Danielle and Joseph Jr. Joseph is the cutest kid and I wish you could be here to hold him and see how much he is growing. Anyway I had a few dreams and you were in them. In one of tnem you were in a really cool very futuristic type place wearking nice clothes and just being very happy and content. This I am sure is how it is for you and you are really enjoying your time with God and looking out for us. Anyway keep saying prayers for us and I'll be praying back to you. We miss you and love you Scott. Cousin Joe
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Nick posted a condolence
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Hi dad its mne nick just want to say hi. I never go a day without thinking of something funny u did like throw the toaster out the window or the time when we drove the tractor thing on the pond during the winter. I always think about those fun things we used to do. Basball just started and we havent had our first game yet but il do good because in practice and our first sprimige i did great. Yankee Stadium will be done next year and i cant wait. I always wish i could talk to you and hear your voice one more time
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mom and dad posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
dearscott,not a day or night goes by that you are not in our thoughts and prayers. you left us with the most beautiful memories and wonderful family anyone could ask for. we know you are always with us we feel it in ourhearts.love you forever.
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andrea posted a condolence
Sunday, March 30, 2008
praying for you every day...missing you a lot. feel your presence often...mostly through a song. everything in our house brings back memories of you. even jack. going into the garage is too much, mostly everything in there is yours.
keep watching over us. we'll never stop loving you. xo
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Joan Z posted a condolence
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Thinking of you on the First Anniversary of your Passing....Pray for Andrea & chldren and your dear parents who miss you terribly. Pray you are at Peace. Joan Z
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andrea posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
lots of thoughts about you this week. its a year...a whole year without you on this earth. you are part of our daily conversation. the boys talk about you like you're still here. it's just comforting to write to you...i don't know why but it's a way of staying connected to you. this picture of you is such a good one, but so sad to look at your happy face. you were in your favorite place...hawaii. please rest in peace and watch over us, we really need it. xo an
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nick posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Hi dad its me nick spring baseball try outs are in a feew days. If you were still here you would have died because the giants one the super bowl for the first time in awhile.I realy wish you were still here. Wiliam tryed out for a little kids baseball team and were not sure if he made or not. I hope i make the spring baseball team. Bye dad see you later.
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Kelly posted a condolence
Thursday, February 7, 2008
I dont know any of his family, & i didnt know him...but I lost my dad when I was 12. He died in July. i think about it & i now i know why i am sad. im sad for me...not for my dad. hes happy riding his motorcycle across heaven now, as i type this. after spraining my wrist & having my friends give me the nickname "cripple arm" i know he would've laughed. this guy reminds me of my dad. my dad used to turn everything into humor. this past november, having my 13th birthday without him was awful. i feel kinda cheated though, all my friends have 2 parents. i dont. so, yea i understand. [my dad is donald anderson]
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Joseph T. Roman posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Scott,
As time passes since you have move onto heaven I feel that our bond is growing stronger spiritually. I absolutely feel your communication with me especially when times get challenging and I know that I need to stick it out and go the extra mile. You were there for me in high school to when you always kept on me to stay with it and that is what I did. Joseph Jr. turned 8 months and he is doing well and has 4 teeth :-). Anyway knowing where you are and that you keep inspiring me through a spiritual way makes me feel very good and very comfortable. I even at times laugh knowing that many of the things I do you would also find to be very funny. Andrea let me have the wood cabinet that you made in high school and it sits under our TV with our VCR and cable box on it. When I look at it it reminds me of how much of a talented person you were and that i surely could never have made event a nearly as nice piece of furniture. Anyway keep on praying for us as we appreciate it. Love Joe
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Stephanie posted a condolence
Sunday, January 27, 2008
Hey'
Just wanted to wish you a happy birthaday in heaven! Sorry I late but I have been so busy lately. My mother in law need heart surgury and she got so many other problems it takes a lot of my tome.
But, enough of that stuff, I miss you so much and think of you everyday. I'm thinking that you would already have the superbowl tickets lined up and the trip planned and packed and ready leave early for all the fun! And we would be looking for you during the game!
Please say hello to my mom, dad, nana and popsie i miss them so much too.
I'll be thinking of you and keep you in my heart!
Love always,
Stephanie
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andrea roman posted a condolence
Friday, January 25, 2008
it was just your birthday...first since your gone. very sad for all of us. thinking back to all the years and the the bithdays, all the happy times. its been a tough year for all of us. knowing your at peace brings peace to my heart. life was a struggle those last few years. i'm sure you already know THE GIANTS ARE GOING TO THE SUPERBOWL. i'm sure you'll be there in spirit. you would never miss this one. your team and your favorite place to go! nick and will talked about you last sunday as they watched the game and the giants one. we love you scott. please rest in peace and hopefully one day we will be by your side in heaven. xoxo
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sal posted a condolence
Sunday, January 20, 2008
hi scott, just wanted to drop you a note and ask you to say hi to my parents for me , they are rocky and marie, you will like them so say hi. But really wanted to ldt you know that the kids are really missing you and i pray that you are watching over them. I am trying my best to help them in your absence but yoou have such big shoes to fill i am afraid i am not dooing such a good job. i remind Nick all the time about what a great hitter you were in school and that he has to get that bat around faster, he is coming around i think he will hit 350 this upcoming season. Wil is doing great too, probably bat 350 when he is 9. The girls are so looking for you, especially, Brookie, she is struggling with some high school girl issues but she is so smart and beautiful that with your prayers and thoughts and with an's help here on earth she will be fine, but still pray and watch over her. Brit ios as strong as ever and she misses you greatly too. She has adjusted to school in ny nicely and is doing really well at her job. Man did you and an have a great family, i am so so sorry that you are no longer here to help bring them all along as they loved you soo much. I had alittle run-in with nick's b-ball coaches and i did what i thought you would have wanted me to do, that is stick up fopr nick and let them know they were wrong. Nick said you would have been glad but tht you would have ripped their heads off, i took a little less spirited approach for all's sake but it got the job done. Anyway i have to go to work now but i thought i neeeded to write to you bc I wanted you to know how much you are still missed and always willbe. Your place in this family is so honored and i dont know if you knew that at the end. Sleep well my friend as your wonderful wife andrea also cherishes your memeories with herself and the kids. I have gotten to know your parents and it seems you were one very lucky guy to have been surronded by all of these magnificent people. You also must be very special bc for a MAN to be loved by such worthy peole means the MAN himself had to be worthy of receiving that gift. So in closing i say to you, Always watch over this amazong group of people that you are connected with here on earth as they desire your presence now more than ever. Your Friend now and forever Sal
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Brooke posted a condolence
Saturday, December 29, 2007
hey dad i wish you were here life is harsh and i know that you understand that more then anyone else. i wish i could just talk to you or that i did when i had the chance. im sorry. i think about you everyday and how life would be if you werent gone, or if we fixed everything. i love you and miss you.
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nick posted a condolence
Monday, November 26, 2007
hi dad its nick. My birthday just passed. I've started playing paintball once every week. Will just won the homerun derby. Life has been very wierd without you. Every day I wonder if your realy gone. One day I asked mom if I could go over your house and see you. Then I remebered that you were in heaven. Whats heaven like? Every day gets harder knowing your gone and your not coming back. When I look at the picture of you on this web site I wonder what it would be like if I could here your voice. I haven't heard your voice since the morning of when you died then when I came home from school my life had been changed and will never be the same. I hope I see you in heaven when I get there. Bye dad.
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brooke posted a condolence
Thursday, November 22, 2007
hi daddy. its thanksgiving and i really miss you today. it is so hard to be thankful for anything when your not here. i feel like ive been cheated and you have too. at the cemetary today i was trying to look at your gravestone and think of what im thankful for. it was just so hard though realizing that your body was under the ground i was standing on. the only thing i could come up with was im thankful for you creating me and the family of people i have. thank you for giving me life, even though it is hard knowing you will not be around for as long as im still living.
i have faith that you're in heaven.
i have hope that your safe & watching.
but i can't say that im thankful when your not with us today.
i love you daddy. we miss you.
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andrea roman posted a condolence
Friday, November 9, 2007
hi scott. i love this picture of you. you were so happy in the photo, we were in hawaii.
i really hope there is a heaven. its very comforting to know that your with uncle ron and all your granparents and uncle joe and aunt sandi. i hope your watching over us.
it was really sad saying good-bye to your house. all the stuff that we collected over the years. i kept all the things that were important to you. its really hard to believe your really gone. is it really true?
the kids are doing okay. they constantly talk about you. brooke finds comfort visiting you at the cemetary.
not a day goes by that your not on my mind. you were loved by more people than you can ever imagine. i love you scott.
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william posted a condolence
Friday, November 9, 2007
i miss you. we sold your house and kept some stuff. i have your big necklace with diamonds, your baseball ring, football ring, hockey stick and pucks. nick has your watch. i gave your gold necklace to bippy. is everything white in heaven? how many feet are you in the air? are you with great grandpa, he died in july. i have 2 turtles named kenny and chuck. jack is still nuts...he jumps and steels food. uncle frank had his baby. isabella. i'm in first grade. i want to learn to play hockey. next year i'm gonna play football and baseball. i won the home run derby again this year. i wish you could have been there like last year. are you still wearing your earing? are you happy or sad?i i played football at your house twice right before your house was sold. i think about you every day. me and nick always talk about you and all the fun things you did. i love you daddy.
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Stephanie posted a condolence
Monday, October 15, 2007
Scott,
I have not written in awhile but I think of you "big time" everyday. As the calendar moves I can not belive that you are gone this long. I miss you and love you please keep all of in your heart as you are in ours.
love always
stephanie
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Uncle Steve posted a condolence
Friday, October 5, 2007
Well Scott, I went to the cemetary the other day, and there were as many Roman's there almost as there are outside the place. Time has a way of passing, and I read the last few letters you sent to us...I guess besides Mom and Dad, I am the only one who remebers when you came home from the hospital, the day you split your head open when i was baby sitting..I hpe that is all gone now...you were a good person, a good kid there are so many things to recall, but I mvoe forward to your wedding, one of the last times grandpa and the whole crew was together..That was a good day for all of us....By the way, If Uncle Ron tries to throw you in the water, just step out of the way...He won't be able to catch you...
A whole lifetime of memories have past, and you are in good company...Grandman and Grandpa Roman Uncle Ron, that should be an interesting discussion group.
The boys Tombo, Joebo and Stevebo keep in touch with Andrea dn the kids...It is not easy for any of us, but we all have good memories and that is all that matters now...The Ynakess lost last night in the first round of the playoffs, I think they all go home early for the winter, but we'll see...
Pray for us...We need it back here, say hello to all of the family...
Uncle Steve
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person posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
I have no idea who Scott was or what kind of person he was, I just came across his obituary. I have been following the candles since April and all I can say is that Scott was deeply loved more than he knew and still very much missed by his heartbroken Family. I continue to follow the candles and think of his family everyday. May peace be on all of you one day
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Joseph T. Roman posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
Cousin Scott,
10/3/07
As the months go on it's almost like your passing away was just something that did not happen at times. I think about you all the time and often feel like I can call you just to say hello and you would be there to chat with and to give me advice. We'll the hard reality is that you are not here and that I can only pray to you to chat now. I definately feel your presence when i pray to you and I actually laugh often (with you) when I think of things that I know we would both think are funny. Our son joseph was born 4 months ago so you now have another cousin to look over (he is healthy and is cute with strawberry blonde hair and blue eyes). Anyway writing this is sad for me but also happy at teh same time because I know you are with Jesus Uncle Ron Grandma and Grandpa. I'll always be here to be there for your family (Andrea, kids and parents) just as I know you would be for me if the situation was reversed. Talk with you soon, Love you Scott.
Joseph T. Roman
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andrea roman posted a condolence
Saturday, September 29, 2007
its been 6 months. can't believe you're really gone. we miss you so, so much. life is forever changed without you on this earth. i'm sure you're at peace in heaven. i think about you everyday. the kids talk about you all the time.
i just can't stand to accept the fact that you aren't here to watch your children grow-up and be a part of there lives. please watch over us. XO
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andrea roman posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
hi scott, its labor day today. we spent the day at the lake. i thought of you often. you can't imagine how much you are missed. i know you're watching over us and you see how much you were loved. we talk about you every day...funny stories, things you liked or did, vacations we took. the kids love to hear stories about anything that has to do with you.
i haven't written anything in awhile. its just really a heart breaker. you know, we had a garage sale at your house...so many of our things. it's just too much! going in your house is really unbearable. it gets harder. in the beginning it was comforting, not anymore.
brittany graduated and left for college. brooke lifeguarded all summer. nick and will had a great summer at the lake. we went to monmouth beach a few times, the house is being renovated...you would love it. it's exactly what you always wanted my parents to do. so many good memories there of all our summers as a family.
the kids kept lots of your stuff. will loves your jewelry. nick kept your bike. of course they all want your memorabilia. the girls have some of your clothes. there is a piece of you in each of our hearts.
your parents miss you more than you could ever imagine. we spend lots of time with them which is really good for all of us.
please watch over the kids as they start school, especially brooke as she's having a difficult time in her life this past year.
please know or feel the love from all of us to you. hugs and kisses
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marla & jonathan Sacks posted a condolence
Monday, August 27, 2007
we think of you and your family often. We will miss your smile. love the sacks family
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Nick posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Dad thing have never been the same since your gone. Almost every day i wish i could go to your house and talk about baseball and football with you. It doesnt seem like your realy gone. When i wish i could go see you my mind says your at your house But if i went there theres really just an empty place full of memories. Although i was mad at u some times that doesnt mean i wouldnt do anything or give anything to have you back. Times have been hard without you. Knowing that your gone makes me sader and sader every day. I miss you so much. Every day i want to hear your voice. Sometimes i picture you cooking for me and will and sometimes i picture you me and will playing baseball or football. This time last year me and you would be out side fishing or playing baseball. The days get harder and harder every day because we know your gone and we cant do anything about it. Its not like we can have you come back to life once your gone your gone and thats what my brain doesnt under stand. you were the best coach for all the sports ive played. you always made me improve at sports because you were good at them. its almost been 6 months since you died. I never stop thinking of you no mater what i am doing. Your in my hopes and dreams that ill see you again some how some day but i no that i cant is all i can do is watch tapes you made when we were on vacations look at pictures of you there never ending times i want to spent with you. The last time i ever hurd you talk was 3 days before you died when we played baseball. That Day was one of the last days of my life that everthing seemed to be perfect in my life. Ilove and i wish i could talk to you BYE.
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Joanne posted a condolence
Monday, August 20, 2007
I think about you more at this time of year. I've been down the shore alot and there's always something to remind me of you. Even just passing the Carousel Arcade, where I ran into you a few years back. You were always so funny and sweet and laughing. You are the only one I could have an egg fight with.
Love you, Cousin Joanne
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Gail posted a condolence
Monday, August 20, 2007
Scott, I was talking a lot to you the last few years. I miss talking to you. I often thnk of calling you but you are not there to talk to. I wanted to call your cell phone to hear your voice.
Sadly missed, your phone buddy,
Cousin Gail
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Brooke posted a condolence
Friday, August 3, 2007
daddy, i miss you so much. life is so different without you. i went to your house the other day with mommy and everyone we had to get stuff, i took a few things to keep, so i will think of you wearing them or having them when i see them. tomorrow is the garage sale at your house. please watch over us, its going to be hard for everyone to sell your things. i feel so bad im sorry, i dont want to sell them, we just dont like thinking about all the things you've had go to waste, we cant leave your house alone forever, we had to get it over with. you do not know how much you are missed. i would really need you right now, i need fatherly advice on things and it kills me to know i cant get it from you. i just wish you were still here. im having a hard time with a lot of things and i just dont like you being gone. please watch over me daddy i need you now. i love you
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Joan posted a condolence
Thursday, July 26, 2007
Dear Scott, I think about you almost everyday and how much you were loved. Please comfort your parents if you are able to reach out to them. They loved you so much and life for them without you is so painful.
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Bob Heim posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Scotty,I will always remember the great times we had.Going skiing,baseball games and all the parties.You where always so much fun to be around.Not a day goes by that we don't think about you.Your Buddy,
H-mer
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Paula Heim posted a condolence
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Scott,
Of all my childrens freinds you were always my favorite. I will never forget how generous you were to us after Kurt died. I love you and miss you.
Paula
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Ed Heim posted a condolence
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Scott,
Had so many good times over the years. What a blast! You are truly missed! I will continue to pray for you and your family. You will never be forgoten!
Heimer
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mom & dad posted a condolence
Friday, July 13, 2007
Dear Scott,
Your memory as a keepsake from which i will never part, God has you in his keeping, I still have you in my heart, They say there is a reason, They say that time will heal, But neither time or reason will change the way we feel, For no one knows the heartache that lies beyond our smiles, No one knows how many times we broken down and cried, We want to tell you something, So there will be no doubt, You're so wonderful to think of but so hard to be without, Forever in our hearts, always on our minds, Love you forever, Mom & Dad
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Dotti Kautzmann posted a condolence
Thursday, July 12, 2007
I worked with Scott's mother, Madeline, before I moved to California in April, 1962. Throughout the years, I would receive updates about Scott. I remember, when Scott had his Pontiac Trans-AM, and whenever, I saw a Trans-AM, I would think of Scott cruising around in his car. When Scott had graduated from college, I remember, his Dad, had asked Scott what he, really, wanted to do with his life. Scott had replied, that he wanted to work for his Dad, which was a rather pleasant surprise, at that particular time. I received a picture of Scott and Andrea, when they were engaged, and I thought that Andrea was an, absolutely, darling and beautiful young lady. On one of my trips to NJ, Madeline drove me to meet Andrea at their beautiful home on a lake. During that visit, we went to see Scott and Andrea's new home, which was under construction, and we went to visit Scott, while he was at work at his Dad's company. We toured the factory, and we visited with Scott for a short time. I, truly, enjoyed that visit, since it was very nice to see Scott, as an adult, with an, incredible, family and future. Throughout the years, one of the nicest highlights of the Holiday Season, was to receive a Christmas card with a picture of Scott and Andrea and their beautiful children. I enjoyed seeing Brittany, Brooke, and then, Nicholas and William, while they were growing each year. Today, is July 12, 2007, and I called Madeline to wish her and Joe a very Happy Anniversary. It was very sad to hear about Scott. I will, always, have fond memories of Scott and his beautiful wife and family. My deepest sympathy to Scott's loving family, and my sincerest thoughts are with all of you at this very sad time.
With much love,
Dotti
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brooke posted a condolence
Thursday, July 5, 2007
hey dad. its brooke, i've been thinking about you more than ever lately. you're always on my mind, everything reminds me of you. i got your favorite leather jacket with the bumps on it, i just picture you wearing it and it makes me feel so bad. i wish i didnt get so upset lately about you being gone but i think its just hitting me harder and harder as time goes on. it made me really upset to see brittany graduate and you not being there. i know it really hurt maggee, she had your graduation picture with her, please watch her she misses more than anyone else and she really needs you. we all need you but watch over her more. great grandpa's wake was today i didnt really show any emotion because after losing you and going to yours nothing will ever compare for me. i love great grandpa and i know youre with him now which makes me feel a little better. were having a garage sale at youre house in august, mommy wants to sell a lot of stuff and get new things, i dont know if im going to be able to go though, being in your house just makes me feel so strange, i cant be there without seeing you walk towards me or laughing, or sitting on the couch or pretending you could play that eletric guitar haha. there's just way too many memories and feelings that i cant handle going along with that house. i just miss you and i regret not spending as much time with you over the past few years. im so sorry that your life had to end where it did and i wish i could've talked to you more or something. i miss you daddy, please help us get through this, its gunna be so hard and the pain will never heal but now we need you more than ever. i love you forever. love brookie
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Nick posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
High dad it me nick. I have been hitting real great this year. they put me on the c team and everyone on it sucks. except for me and like 3 other kids.the coached bite too. i got hit in the leg with a line drive when i was on the mound.ouch. i hit the fence 5 times this year and never hit a home run because the pitches aren't good enough and the umpires suck like evryone else in the league. me and 5 other kids are the best.sorry i didnt get to say hye on fathers day its been the hardrest fathers day without you.it used to be a fun day but now its a day to go to your grave say a prayer and leave. is all we can do is think of fun times we had with you. i lov e forever i will never forget you.
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Nick posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
High dad it me nick. I have been hitting real great this year. they put me on the c team and everyone on it sucks. except for me and like 3 other kids.the coached bite too. i got hit in the leg with a line drive when i was on the mound.ouch. i hit the fence 5 times this year and never hit a home run because the pitches aren't good enough and the umpires suck like evryone else in the league. me and 5 other kids are the best.sorry i didnt get to say hye on fathers day its been the hardrest fathers day without you.it used to be a fun day but now its a day to go to your grave say a prayer and leave. is all we can do is think of fun times we had with you. i lov e forever i will never forget you.
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Stephanie posted a condolence
Monday, June 18, 2007
Hey! Happy Fathers Day. Just had a moment to talk to you, finally. I have been so busy with work and baseball it is just crazy. But I wanted to make sure I got some time to say hello. I thought about you and my dad and father-in-law so much yesterday, I hope it is all well up there and you all had time to catch up! I'm sure it was a very hard day for your kids and parents and Andrea, hopefully as time goes by only the good memories are what come to mind when they DAD or my husband or my son. hopefully they have all your personal things taken care of in a few months and that will help (not fix it) but maybe it will get a little better.
I was talking to your dad this morning and the kids are going to come out for a baseball game and have some fun at the local Yankee stadium. Our seats are pretty good so they should have fun. From our seats you could see in our bull pen and see the pitchers warming up so its pretty cool for the kids to see.
Well I know how much I miss you so I can only imagine how much your kids missed you on this first fathers day without their Dad. I can only hope the pain is not as sharp with the passing of time. Well I have got to run please say hello to my Mom and Dad and tell them that I still miss them and my heart still aches for them everyday.
Love you always and forever,
Stephanie
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paul koeck posted a condolence
Friday, June 8, 2007
I only knew you for a little while but during that time we became very close. I miss talking to you and loved the way you always talked about your 4 kids and how proud you were of each one of them. I know that you are watching over them.
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CMD posted a condolence
Thursday, May 31, 2007
I came to see you today in Denville .It was a warm nice day and I thought of when we were kids .I hope you find peace now. God Bless
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Stephanie Perry posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Hey Scott!
Happy Memorial day. I was thinking about you yesterday and everyone else up there with you and how much we miss you all. I hope things get easier for everyone, not that we would ever forget you, how could we you are and always will be BIG TIME!
I hope you got to see Marc pitch yesterday, He pitched like a champ!! I hope my Dad and Peachy were with you to watch.
The Rocket pitched here yesterday and we could not go see him because Marc had the Legion game. But from all the news footage of the game the fans were in standing room only and up on top of the mountain lookig down into the stadium. The news channels said he pitch a ggod game and the fans got their monies worth.
Well i better get going so my clothes don't wrinkle in the dryer.
Miss you and love you,
Steph
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Stephanie Perry posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Hey Scott!
Happy Memorial day. I was thinking about you yesterday and everyone else up there with you and how much we miss you all. I hope things get easier for everyone, not that we would ever forget you, how could we you are and always will be BIG TIME!
I hope you got to see Marc pitch yesterday, He pitched like a champ!! I hope my Dad and Peachy were with you to watch.
The Rocket pitched here yesterday and we could not go see him because Marc had the Legion game. But from all the news footage of the game the fans were in standing room only and up on top of the mountain lookig down into the stadium. The news channels said he pitch a ggod game and the fans got their monies worth.
Well i better get going so my clothes don't wrinkle in the dryer.
Miss you and love you,
Steph
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Stephanie Perry posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Hey Scott!
Happy Memorial day. I was thinking about you yesterday and everyone else up there with you and how much we miss you all. I hope things get easier for everyone, not that we would ever forget you, how could we you are and always will be BIG TIME!
I hope you got to see Marc pitch yesterday, He pitched like a champ!! I hope my Dad and Peachy were with you to watch.
The Rocket pitched here yesterday and we could not go see him because Marc had the Legion game. But from all the news footage of the game the fans were in standing room only and up on top of the mountain lookig down into the stadium. The news channels said he pitch a ggod game and the fans got their monies worth.
Well i better get going so my clothes don't wrinkle in the dryer.
Miss you and love you,
Steph
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Mayra Sansone posted a condolence
Saturday, May 26, 2007
Scott,
It's almost been 2 months since God took you with him. You need to be at peace knowing that you have the most amazing family anyone could wish for. I see Andrea almost everyday and you must be so proud to see what a great job she does with your kids. Please watch over every one of them and help Andrea with the strength she needs. Say hello to my grandma, Gabe's mom and all the others angels up there.
Mayra
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NICK posted a condolence
Sunday, May 20, 2007
dad i cant believe your not here but your happy now. there was not t many times we spent together when you or me we both so happy.i got a new glove, bat, pitching machine,and pitching net.i wish you were here to help me break-in my new glove.i've never done this great in baseball i have sensation not known to me because it is now the only thing i like to do.bye i love you.
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NICK posted a condolence
Sunday, May 20, 2007
dad i cant believe your not here but your happy now. there was not t many times we spent together when you or me we both so happy.i got a new glove, bat, pitching machine,and pitching net.i wish you were here to help me break-in my new glove.i've never done this great in baseball i have sensation not known to me because it is now the only thing i like to do.bye i love you.
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andrea roman posted a condolence
Friday, May 18, 2007
CAN'T BELIEVE YOU'RE REALLY NOT HERE ANYMORE. TO LOOK AT YOUR HOUSE IS ABSOLUTELY HEARTBREAKING. NOT A DAY HAS GONE BY WHERE SOMEONE HASN'T COME OVER TO ME AND SPOKEN KIND WORDS ABOUT YOU.
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WILLIAM posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
HI DADDY
I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY. NICK GOT A NEW GLOVE. WE NEED YOU TO BREAK IT IN. WE GOT A PITCHING MACHINE THAT PITCHES BASEBALLS OUT AND NICK IS SETTING IT UP WITH PAGGIE RIGHT NOW. YOU WOULD LOVE TO USE IT WITH US. DID YOU TAKE MY LETTER THAT I LEFT AT THE CEMETARY FOR YOU. YOU MUST HAVE BECAUSE ITS GONE. I'M GETTING A PITCHING NET AND I GOT CATCHERS GEAR. JACK IS SLEEPING ON THE KITCHEN FLOOR RIGHT NOW. I LOVE YOU SOO MUCH. WHERE IS THE BATHROOM IN HEAVEN? DID YOU SEE ANY YANKEE GAMES? ARE YOU WITH BABE RUTH? I THINK YOU ARE. HOW BIG IS GOD? CAN YOU FIND OUT WHERE A ROD LIVES BECAUSE I WANT TO GO SEE HIM. I MISS YOU DAD.
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Bob Ernst posted a condolence
Thursday, May 10, 2007
He was my friend, and I never realized how much I would miss him, even though we had little contact over the last 20 years. I hope you're in a better place.
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Stephanie Perry posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 8, 2007
Hey Scott it just me, sorry I have talked to you in a while but it has been a little crazy here. Say hello to my father-in-law for us. I think about you everyday, the littlest things come and think ah here is another way we need you. I know you know that the Yankees signed the Rocket (thanks for that!) and he will probably pitch here in Scranton and I have some season tickets (hopefully my package included his game) and this would be the perfect time for us to take the boys to a game, and you would be the right guy to get the kids to fence and get pictures and autographs! This is just another way you did things for the people you love. I hope you see all the ways you are loved and missed everyday big or small there was always something you did gor someone.
Well I gotta go Marc has a game and he is pitching (pull some strings will you :)! Love you and miss you.
Love always Steph :)
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Jean Wood posted a condolence
Monday, May 7, 2007
Hi Scott, I had dinner with your parents tonight in Florida.They miss you so much, as do Andrea and the kids.We talked about you a lot and about my husband Bob. I figure you guys are hanging out now. Maybe you can teach Bob (Bert) to play better soft ball or how to actually jump in volleyball!I assume Barbara Schmidt is umpiring or reffing everything. I know you and Bert are in a better place and that you are watching over all of us with constant love and affection.You are always in my thoughts and Prayers, Jeannie
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andrea roman posted a condolence
Monday, May 7, 2007
thinking of you today and every day. we have a whole inside of us since you left. things just don't seem quite right without you on this earth! this was your favorite time of year. you're supposed to be planting tomatoes and playing baseball. please watch over the kids. i hope you're there watching nick on the baseball field and on the track looking over william. the girls talk about you every day. please keep a watchful eye on them. you are missed and loved more than you can possibly imagine. XO
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sal simeone posted a condolence
Sunday, May 6, 2007
Scott, i never really got to know you except for the few times we met at the ballpark, etc., and each and every time we met you always greeted me with kindness and respect, which is exactly how your children and Andrea described you to me. I hope you meet my parents who are both up there with you, and that you guys have a chat. I will say a prayer that you are comfortable now and no longer battling that inner fight. Your children so dearly love and miss you, please watch over them and Andrea as well. I know you are in a better place now, and that your soul and spirit are at peace. God Bless you and may He continue to watch over and protect your family with your help from Above.
P.S. I am sure if we ever had the chance to get to know each other we would have been good friends. Sal
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chris and pete iulo posted a condolence
Friday, May 4, 2007
Our combined participation with sports and families will always be part of the Iulo memories. Be Happy in the fields with our eternal father.
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Michele Di Pasquale posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2007
SCOTT, YOU HAVE NOT LEFT MY OR ANYONE'S THOUGHTS. I DROVE PAST YOUR HOUSE THIS WEEK, DECIDED TO PULL IN THE DRIVEWAY AND HOPE TO FEEL YOUR PRESENCE, WHICH I DID. I WALKED AROUND YOUR HOUSE AND SHED, AND I CANNOT, SIMPLY CANNOT, BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE GONE. WE ARE DEVASTATED BY YOUR LOSS, BROTHER-IN-LAW. YOUR LOSS HAS BEEN THE WORST, MOST PAINFUL EXPERIENCE OF MY LIFE. EVERYONE AGREES, MY PARENTS, BROTHERS, ANDREA, THE KIDS, YOUR PARENTS, YOUR COUSINS TOM & JOE, YOUR FRIENDS, ALL OF US. WE LOVE YOU SCOTT. I HOPE YOU ALWAYS KNEW THAT, BRO.
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Rick Ocetnik posted a condolence
Monday, April 30, 2007
Sissy and Joe,
There are people in my life who will always bring a smile to my heart. I would like to share some of my memories of those special people. I remember driving with my father and mother to visit Aunt Helen and Uncle Joe in Olyphant, I can still remember climbing the stairs to the kitchen and seeing Aunt Helen's face peering through the door. The very first wedding that I remember is yours, I was the ring bearer you know! I can't seem to forget the small apartment with the round bed that you had in Orange! But what I remember most is how proud and happy you both were when Scotty was born. Nor can I forget how much Aunt Helen loved Scott. I don't know if you knew this way back then but I always thought I was the favorite and I was quite jealous when Scott was born. Scott was just a little guy when you would visit us, it always seemed that you came when I had a little league game to play and Scott would ask me a million questions about baseball before I left to play. I remember when my dad and I would visit how you both would shine with pride over Scott's atheletic accomplishments. These are just a few of my memories I have of you and Scott and I hope that some day soon remembering them will bring you the joy and happiness that it does for me. I want you both to know that you are very special to me and I will always cherish the times that I shared with you and Scott.
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Andrea Roman posted a condolence
Thursday, April 26, 2007
i miss scott so much. he has been a part of my life since i was 15yrs.old. i just can't seem to accept the fact that he is really gone. we definitly had our problems and life wasn't easy as it may have appeared to many. i have so many wonderful memories over the years which i will cherish forever. there isn't an hour that goes by that he's not on my mind. scott had a great sense of humor and a very kind heart. he left behind 4 beautiful children who miss him more than words can explain. everyday i feel his presence with us. listening to music reminds me so much of scott. to think he will never be here again to see his children, hear the music, enjoy delicious food or travel on an airplane just breaks my heart. i love you scott.
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nick posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
dad are happy in the gardens of heaven were you moved to. your new home. you are very loved. every time i going fishing without you the fish dont bite. we i play baseball i feel i can barely play.you made us happy. now your safe. you had many troubles now there's but one your not HERE.
you made me happy by the humor you had and funny jokes you could crack. no one new this was your fate. you werent to die like this but to die in a hospital bed not your own. the last thing we did together was tape the box of bebes that cracked and tell you about how agrian and his friend were eating pizzia over with us from juniors and how we loved the wings then i went back to my house wich would be the last time i could your house a home. i hope you read this kday. until we meet again DAD.
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brittany posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
daddy-
i have not lit a candle in a while, but lately i have been seeing a lot of ladybugs and i know that its you telling my that you are alright. every time i get sad i think that you are in a better place and that you are not hurting yourself or anyone else. keep sending the ladybugs.
love, brittany
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Stephanie Perry posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Hey, Scott
I still can not believe that your gone. I wish I could turn the clock back and have you here for your kids. I wish we could make you healthy and give a do over this time everything is good. You are always on mind, in my thoughts and prayers. Please watch over your kids and help them get through the bumps of life with a little ease and comfort from heaven. Please say hello to my mom and dad and tell them how much we think of you all and love all of you so much. Love always Steph
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Brookie posted a condolence
Sunday, April 22, 2007
Daddy, i was thinking about you today. how your death has changed everything. It's crazy how it can effect people in so many different ways. everyone has different feelings about it, about you. there's grief, saddness, sickness, anger, shock, sometimes there's happiness and relief knowing that your finally ok and we dont need to worry about you, that you're in Gods hands now. with all the emotions that we all feel for you there's moments. moments that we spend thinking about you, smiling about funny things that happened years ago, or your sense of humor that always made us crack up, then theres times that we just get sad, mad, hurt, alone because we know your gone. realizing that im never going to see you again, hear your voice, your laugh, your billy joel music blasting on the car stero, hearing your funny phrases like "k-day", just hits me so hard, and i feel so empty without you there. we all know that you're always with us, watching and protecting us, but it's just so upsetting knowing we wont actually be able to see you except for in our dreams and memories. dad, can you please help us all to cope with this hard time in our lives, and give us the strength to move on and except you being in a better place now. we will never forget you, and everytime we hear that song that reminds us of you, or think of something funny you said, or see a picture we all look so happy in, we are going to cry and pray for you and just miss you. i know there is nothing anyone can do at times like these but you, becuase now is your time to protect us most. we're all in your hands now, keep an eye on us. i love you daddy.
love, brookie
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Andrea Roman posted a condolence
Sunday, April 22, 2007
Hey Scott,
You are missed so much. We talk about you everyday and think about you every minute. You left us way too early! I took the boys fishing at your house today. I still can't believe your gone. I walk through your house and look at your things and i feel your presence. I go in your closet and touch your clothes, i sit on your bed, i look in the refrigator. I just feel like your not really gone. Maybe it's just a bad dream.
William brought his karate trophy to the cemetary today. He said its for you. Nick brought you a candle and he lit it. The kids are having a hard time. They really needed you so please watch over them and guide them. Your mom and dad are having a hard time as well. Maybe you never knew how much you were loved.
Please rest in peace and watch over us.
Love always, An
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nick posted a condolence
Sunday, April 22, 2007
Dad to day i lit a candle at your grave.it kept blowing out and i had to lite it like 5 times. but it made me stay that extra minute to think you were there i couldnt see you or here you knew you were there i smelt you and could almost start a conversation with you. the last time i talked to you it was 1 hour before you probably 1st saw god and jesus i didnt want to end that phone call but i all most missed the bus i wish i did. but at least we said goodbye and i love. the last time we went fishing we caught 21 sunnys 3 bass and 2 carp. you would always help me now im stuck because im clue-les with some stuff. today i jumped in your pondi felt a shock but then got out. im doing good in baseball and will play football you said you were going to coach. you always made me happy. arod has 12 homers that means he leads the league by 6. i can barly do any thing with out thinking of you like watching espn without you. it feels like life is half gone you were one half and i was the other half. no one will ever take your place but it so hard to part. i cant take being here without you i want to visit soon.
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Ronald Perry posted a condolence
Sunday, April 22, 2007
It was an honor to work with you at your plant and see your technical side of your business operations and see BIG TIME in action. We always had a great time when we were in each others company especially in those great golf outings.I hope you find peace.
Your cousin Ron
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Marc Perry posted a condolence
Sunday, April 22, 2007
I love you and miss you scott
your godson Marc
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Bakie @ bob Taroli posted a condolence
Sunday, April 15, 2007
sorry for the loss of your son we wish you the best you are in our prayers and we pray for scott.
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Joseph T. Roman posted a condolence
Saturday, April 14, 2007
Scott,
Nick and I watched the movie 300 earlier this week and we talked about you and how you will always be with us. I have been thinking a lot of you this week especially how you really taught me how to have fun and more importantly be a great father to our baby who is not born yet. I miss you Scott and even though you are with Jesus it does not take away the pain I feel when I want to call you and talk about old times. I was talking with Dave D (brother in law) about the 1979 Trans Am you had when he met you. I wish you were here to ask you what that car rode like and if my corvette could ever beat it in a race? (You'd probably beat me in the race). Anyway I missed you fishing this week and caught one trout last week. Danielle's baby shower was great today and I thought of you all day. Please keep giving me business advice from up there.
Love Cousin Joe
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Mom & Dad posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Dear Scott,
You were and you will always be the love of our life to your father and me.
From the moment you were born you were our greatest gift. We had so much pleasure watching you grow.....memories left in our hearts forever. These memories we will share with your children, they just love hearing stories about you.
We do know you are in a much better place, no more pain or suffering, you are in Gods hands.
It's two weeks today since we heard your voice last, we cannot believe your gone and still wait to hear you call.
Always remember our love for you was unconditional, we will never forget you, you will live in our hearts forever.
One of your great accomplishments in life was your wife and four children, and your memories will go on through your children and your childrens children forever.
You are gone, but never forgotten.
Love You Forever,
Mom & Dad
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Lori & Tom Iulo posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Scott,
You will always hold a special place in our hearts that will live a lifetime. The fun times, the jokes and most of all just spending time together. Your battle is now over and you are in heaven looking down on all of us with that gleam in your eye because you are now out of your pain. We know for sure that you will be an active parent in your childrens lives by being in their hearts. All the games, the birthdays and family events will surely be missed with your physical presence but you will always be watching and having fun with all of us from heaven. Hey, see what you can do up there about the Yankees having a winning year! We miss you...
Love,
Tombo and Lor
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Michael E. Warholak III posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Yankee stadium when we were kids. The beach with Nanna and Popsie. Big Bass Lake.
Spending time with you, your mom and dad. Rest in Peace Scott. Much Love, Cousin Michael, Uncle Mike, and Rachel.
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Joan Zabransky & Family posted a condolence
Sunday, April 8, 2007
Dear Scott, Today is Easter Sunday and I awoke today thinking of your parents and how much they loved you and will miss you . When Wes died, your parents were there for me & our Family. I hope that Andrea, Brooke,Brittany, Nick, William and your parents know that I would do anything to help them at this difficult time. I remember you growing up here in Montville and you were always smiling,happy, laughing,joking around. Most of all, I remember how generous you were,all the time.You married the sweetest ,pretty Andrea. Wes & I danced at your wedding.Now, I see yours and Andrea's children, and I see you in them. I pray that you are at Peace and I will pray that your Mom & Dad will also find a way to live out the rest of their days without you.It will be so difficult for them. They loved you so much. Love, Joanie,Kevin,Wesley& Sharon
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william posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 3, 2007
hi dad,
i saw you today when i was on the airplane. you were holding a sign in the clouds. what state are you in in the clouds? i'm in florida. are you playing baseball? do you go fishing up there? throw me down a fish. i love you dad.
love, william
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Stephanie Perry posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 3, 2007
Scott, I hope you were able to see your services and the amount of love that everyone had and will always have for you. I know you said that if you died that no one would come to your funeral, oh how wrong you were, there were about one thousand people came to mourn the loss of you. And the funeral was in BIG TIME style. I will think of you every day and pray that you are at peace and that you watch over you family, they feel your loss in so many little ways I pray you help them get some peace.
Love ALWAYS,
Stephanie
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Gary and Sandy Mirsky posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 3, 2007
We are all greatly saddened by our loss. We know you are in a better and safer place and hopefully you can take some comfort in the outpouring of love for you and your family shown this weekend.
We will miss you and everytime I see lightning, I know it will be you hitting one over the fence.
You will never be out of our thoughts.
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nick posted a condolence
Monday, April 2, 2007
dad can you watch over our days and nights,please protect us. every time i play baseball or fottball i will wish you were there to watch in and be part of my many glorius moments when im hitting a grandslam or diving for a touchdown i will hope you watch me from heaven and are proud of me. i hope to come see you in heaven one day soon or you come visit me by flying down with your wings and speaking to me or showing me a cloud that looks like an angle what ever it is i will be on the lookout. i dont know if it was me or you came to me in my dreams that we were playing baseball anjd having the best time i ever had with you laughing and hitting in your drive way. did you get the letter i put in your coffin or any of brookes wills or bips. i also put your baseball glove in the coffin so when we meet again we can play our favorite game together baseball!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i wish you were here. you are one of my favorite people ever and you are loved by every one you said you were going to have a small funeral but the whole world was there for your funeral even my friends were crying. your coffin vault is painted yankee blue and white. we all miss you o so very much. i know you dont want to come back because your at the best place ever aqnd god wanted you early. you followed the path god laid for you. when you took his hand you turned your back and left it all. we are grieving for you. i hope you are fishing with uncle ron remeber me.your my only dad and know one can replace my daddy from the 1st second i was born.i love you daddy!!!!!!!!!!! when i go to heaven i want to play baseball with you. you are lucky for you didnt die painful death. i want to die to come see you with the whole family and have some fun. i send you love from EVERY ONE. grieve for you so badly i want to see you. i feel you hear when i dream or just write this. i love like one the most daddy you were everthing i want you. your oldest son nick you saw when i was born and i saw the end of you. i love you daddy the only one i will ever have no one can do anything about it. so i will end it like you ended it with me bye daddy i realy realy realy love love see you later when you come over.
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CAROLE ROBERTS posted a condolence
Monday, April 2, 2007
DEAR JOE & SISSY, AFTER TALKING WITH YOU JOSEPH, I STARTED TO REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD WHEN I WAS MUCH YOUNGER ,,,I REMEMBER WHEN YOU, SISSY AND SCOTT CAME TO CHICAGO AND WE ALL WENT MINIATURE GOLFING ..SCOTT WAS JUST A YOUNG CHILD WITH THAT BLONDE HAIR..WE ALSO HAD SO MANY GOOD MEMORIES OF YOUR FAMILY WHEN WE WENT TO NEW JERSEY..SISSY ALWAYS MADE US FEEL SO WELCOME ..AND SHE STILL DOES ...AND REMEMBERING RONNIE IS SO VERY SPECIAL ..ONE OF THE LAST TIMES I WENT TO NEW JERSEY, PRIOR TO JUST RECENTLY....HE TOOK ME UP TO ALBANY FOR THE AFTERNOON...HE HAD SOME BUSINESS TO ATTEND TO AND HE THOUGHT I COULD USE A BREAK FROM AUNT TOOTSIE & YOUR MOM ...AGAIN I'LL NEVER FORGET WHAT A FUNNY GUY HE WAS ..YOU HAVE HAD MUCH HEARTACHE.. MY HEART GOES OUT TO ALL OF YOU ...THERE IS NOTHING THAT I CAN SAY TO EASE YOUR GRIEF..BUT GOD HAS A PLAN FOR ALL OF US ..HOPE TO SEE YOU WITHIN THE NEXT YEAR....LOVE PAUL & CAROLE, LEAH, KRISTIN & TOMMY ....
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David DiPasquale posted a condolence
Sunday, April 1, 2007
Hey K-Day! Where do I start? There are so many memories with you Scotty. You were always like a second brother to me. I remember the first time we met. I was not even 4. The year was 1979. You came over to our house in your shiny, new, black Trans Am. When I saw your car, I could not wait to show you the matchbox car I had. It was exactly your car! I still to this day tell the story of you throwing the cork-screw down the revine at 3 Neil Ct in frustration. Told it to Bob and Pete tonight! The San Genaro feast. Us doing 170 mph in your 930 on 287, all the Shore trips, Yankee games, the list goes on and on...
One thing I am most thankful for Scott is the opportunity you gave me to work at Sperro. My years there were vital in my maturation in the business, technology, and ecconomic worlds. They were the footprints of my working career. I will never forget them and I thank you.
Most of all, your dark, venomous inner-war is finally over. It was painful watching you struggle with your health. One thing I do know now is you are finally at peace with yourself. At least I can feel confort knowing that. I will be a second set of eyes, watching over your children and assisting Andrea with the family anyway I can. We will miss you brother.
Love,
David, Sara, and your niece that unfortunately you never met, Ava.
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Frank DiPasquale jr. posted a condolence
Sunday, April 1, 2007
Scott, I can't believe this day has come.You have been a part of my life for as long as i can remember.So many memories fill my mind that we shared.The first time you walked into my parents home to take my sister out,going to new york city to see the ranger's play,the shore,and holiday's.Many people go thru our live's and make impressions on us.You will always be loved and missed by all of us.I know the last few years had taken a turn for the worse, and you struggled to find peace in your life,and i know you will have it now.I hope during these last few years of your life, you knew i loved you and deeply cared about your well-being.Scott, always know that i will be there to support my sister and your children,and be a positive influence in their lives.To your children, you will always be their father,no one could ever take that away,and they as i will always hold you close to our hearts. I love you Scott, your brother-in-law Frank R.I.P
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Barbara Glouse posted a condolence
Sunday, April 1, 2007
Memories of Scott was watching him grow and enjoying the sports he played.He was a fun spirit to be around.He will be missed by many.
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Daniel & Valerie Rose posted a condolence
Sunday, April 1, 2007
Scott,
We will miss you so very much. It is so hard to believe you are not with us now.
What hurts the most is that this time around it really felt that things where turning the curve for the better. I was so happy to see your regained interest in life, your family, kids and all. To hear about the great weekend you had with the boys and your parents and the changed attitude you were showing is why your passing is so difficult for me and Valerie. Be peaceful in your existence knowing we will always have an extra eye and care for your family.
We Love you forever Daniel and Valerie Rose
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Sally Novak posted a condolence
Sunday, April 1, 2007
Scott - so hard to believe that one who lived life to it's fullest is now gone. There is such a big whole in so many lives. It will be filled with the legacy of your four beautiful children and the rest of your family and friends that will keep your memory alive. You were like a little brother to me and will never be forgotten. I know you are in good hands now and at peace.
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william posted a condolence
Sunday, April 1, 2007
daddy i love you. i miss you. what do you do in heaven? are you with JESUS and GOD? do you play baseball there? whenever i play baseball i will miss you.
when i play football i will think of you. can you watch me? are you in the left cloud or right cloud, or in the middle cloud? i want to know where to look for you. i'll miss seeing you at your house. love, william
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Andrea Roman posted a condolence
Sunday, April 1, 2007
-SOME PEOPLE COME INTO OUR LIVES AND QUICKLY GO. SOME STAY FOR AWILE,LEAVE FOOTPRINTS ON OUR HEARTS, AND WE ARE NEVER, EVER THE SAME- YOU WILL BE IN MY HEART FOREVER. I'M 42 YRS OLD AND YOU HAVE BEEN IN MY LIFE FOR THE PAST 27 YRS. I JUST CAN'T BELIEVE YOUR GONE. I TRULY THOUGHT YOU WERE INVINCIBLE. YOU WERE A VERY SPECIAL SOUL WITH A HEART OF GOLD. YOU LEFT BEHIND FOUR BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN WHO WILL NEVER GO A DAY IN THEIR LIVES WITHOUT THINKING OF YOU. I KNOW YOUR IN HEAVEN AND FINALLY AT PEACE, WRAPPED IN GODS ARMS. I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER. PLEASE WATCH OVER US AS WE TRAVEL ON OUR JOURNEY THROUGH LIFE.
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Russell Linnett posted a condolence
Sunday, April 1, 2007
Shortly after moving to California, Scott, Andrea, Bittany, Brook and Nick (William was not yet born) came to visit us Linnett's
Scott rented the LARGEST motor home he could and the eight of us set off to explore Northern CA together.
Multiple trips to Kmart to buy Johnny Cash tapes and Charcol... Scotty giving up his bed for Nick and sleeping on the Dashbord, And more brands of beef jerky than you would ever knew where made.It was classic Scotty Roman fun and games that made for one of the most memoriable times any of my family can recall.
I believe Scott tried too hard to make others feel good at the expense of himself.
Always so sure of himself despite himself.
To all Scott's family, we send our love. Our hearts are full having known and loved Scotty
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Joseph T. Roman posted a condolence
Saturday, March 31, 2007
Scott,
I love you cousin. They do not make cousins better than you. I know now that you are in heaven with Jesus, Uncle Ron, Grandma and Grandpa. I'll be praying and talking with you forever so we will always stay close. Thanks for everything you have done for me and always know that I would not be the person I am today without your help, advice and guidance.
Love Cousin Joe.
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Michele Di Pasquale posted a condolence
Saturday, March 31, 2007
SCOTT ROMAN WAS AND ALWAYS WILL BE MY BROTHER-IN-LAW. HE HAS BEEN A PART OF MY FAMILY SINCE HE BACAME MY SISTER'S BOYFRIEND WHEN SHE WAS 15. HE WAS DEEPLY LOVED BY ME, MY BROTHERS AND MY PARENTS. MY SISTER AND HE SHARE 4 KIDS AND THEY ARE OUR WHOLE WORLD. HE WAS KIND-HEARTED AND SO GENEROUS. HE MADE FRIENDS EASILY AND HIS GREGARIOUS NATURE MADE EVERYONE FEEL COMFORTABLE AND WELCOME. IT IS HEARTWRENCHING THAT HE WAS SUFFERING AND THAT IT ULTIMATELY TOOK HIM FROM US. WE ALL CAN TAKE SOME SMALL COMFORT, THOUGH, IN OUR SECURITY THAT HE ALWAYS HAD HIS FAMILY AND DEAREST FRIENDS BY HIS SIDE. WE ALL WERE THERE, AND NEVER STOPPED TRYING TO HELP HIM. HE DID NOT GO ALONE. HE WAS TRULY LOVED BY SO MANY. IT IS AWFUL AND HEARTBREAKING TO READ THIS AS I WRITE IT. I CAN'T BELIEVE SCOTT'S GONE. WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM. -MICHELE DIPASQUALE, SCOTT'S SISTER IN LAW
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Kelle Lach posted a condolence
Saturday, March 31, 2007
Dear Andrea,Aunt Sissy,and Uncle Joe,
To everything there is a season, and to every purpose under the heaven:
I hope you can find comfort in knowing that Scott loved you deeply and knew that you loved him truely.
Love,
Michael, Kelle, Dylan, and Cody
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Amy Chappel posted a condolence
Saturday, March 31, 2007
Joe and Madeline,
I am so sorry to hear of your son's passing. I wish you the strength to deal with the incredible pain you must feel. May your son be safe and at peace in the arms of the Lord and may you both find comfort. Know that I am praying for your entire family.
Amy
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Christine Fazen posted a condolence
Saturday, March 31, 2007
I will always think of you and I hope you find peace in heaven.
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brooke posted a condolence
Saturday, March 31, 2007
daddy, i hope you're safe now. we all miss you. i cant believe i was with you this time last weekend. life can change so fast. please watch over us from heaven and keep us safe. you'll always be in my heart, i love you.
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nick posted a condolence
Saturday, March 31, 2007
Only about 4 or days ago i was playing wiffle ball in his driveway with him. He was so much fun. He used to bring me fishing and tought me how to fish. He also tought me how to play sport but i was never close to how good he was. My family was always hoping he would get beter and and me and my siblings would be able to go sleep at his house over the weekend. Our hopes were always up high and then down lower then the ground. he tought my family and i many great things from baseball to how to know how to have fun and not get offened by everything. He was one of my favorite people in the whole world i would trade anything for him it always will be that way. When i go to heaven i will be able to go fishing ang play baseball with him. I cant wait to see him one day it will be very very fun. I hope you hear me dad.
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Bobby Kalmus posted a condolence
Saturday, March 31, 2007
You'll always be remembered by the gang from Montville High- we had lots of fun--we'll surely miss you-
God take him and hold him and keep his memories alive-God Bless
thanks
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brittany posted a condolence
Saturday, March 31, 2007
i miss you daddy
hope your pain free and happy in heaven
xoxo
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CAROLE ROBERTS posted a condolence
Friday, March 30, 2007
SISSY & JOE...WHAT CAN I SAY? WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT SCOTT. WHEN WE WERE THERE IN FEB. WE WERE SORRY WE MISSED BOTH YOU AND SCOTT. OUR HEART BREAKS FOR YOU, BOTH HE AND YOU TWO ARE IN OUR PRAYERS ..AGAIN WHAT CAN I SAY AT A TIME LIKE THIS, BUT I AM SO SORRY FOR YOU ...ALL OUR LOVE...PAUL, CAROLE, LEAH, KRISTIN AND TOMMY
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Perry Family posted a condolence
Friday, March 30, 2007
Our family will cherish all the memories we have with you and your family. You always had a way to make us laugh when we need it the most. Please find peace in heaven. You will be missed greatly. Thanks for the memories.
Love Steph Ron Sandra and Marc
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Raymond and Gretchen Subka posted a condolence
Friday, March 30, 2007
All of our memories of Scott are good memories. Our families Prayer's are with the Roman family at this most difficult time. Joseph and Madeline are two of the Finest people I have had the privilege of knowing. God Bless Scott and The Roman Family.We will keep you in our Prayer's. Love,Gretchen,Ray and Family.
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Steve Bollander posted a condolence
Friday, March 30, 2007
A huge talent with an even bigger heart.
Our loss is Heaven's gain.
You will be missed.
Sincerely Condolences to your grief stricken family and friends,
Steve "Bollie" Bollander
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Mayra Sansone posted a condolence
Friday, March 30, 2007
May God take you with him and may your family always be blessed and protected.
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