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Funeral Service
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Sunday, July 26, 2015
Union Hill Presbyterian Church of Denville
427 Franklin Road
Denville, New Jersey, United States
Place of Cremation
Locust Hill Crematory
168 North Sussex Street
Dover, New Jersey, United States
Charitable Donations
In lieu of flowers, donations for the education of Sarah and Justin are being accepted; c/o Norman Dean Home For Services, 16 Righter Avenue, Denville, NJ 07834.
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Mom posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 19, 2019
Night before last, I watched Forensic Files, without you. First time since you died. Not the same. Nothing is the same.
Tomorrow Dad finds out when his surgery is. Like a child I will wear the memory bracelet Anne gave me, hopping you can somehow stave off the unthinkable.
We have gotten so old since you left. I hope you are at peace. I am not. I never will be.
I remember when we sent Daddy off for heart surgery. You and Jane gave me strength. Why we have to go through this can't be answered. Hope we three can do this without you.
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Karen Bilza posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, May 23, 2017
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Missing you. Love Mommy
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mom posted a condolence
Monday, May 16, 2016
Jimmy we need your help. Can you do anything to help Matt. You told me what a good guy he is. Your kids need him in their life..
It's been 11 Months, we've started a new normal, so different without you. Please they need him here. This is too much for your tender children!
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Mom posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
Jimmy was that you tonight? Were you telling me it was Maria's 10 yr anniversary? I couldn't get her off my mind. I miss her. I want to share life with her. I want to share life with you .Some times the pain is unbearable. .All I've ever wanted was for my family to be happy.. It's hard to admit I'm not strong enough to make that happen. Oh God I can't stand it. The pain is just to much
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Karen posted a condolence
Saturday, January 16, 2016
It's been 7 months babes....stopped by the house today....so quiet.....miss you every day...angel hugs,....
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AnnMarie posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 29, 2015
Well.... Christmas came and went. Kids flew down to FL for the week to stay with your parents. Their first flight on their own. Of course I was my normal self, a nervous wreck about them flying on their own but as I watched them walk down the ramp to the plane, I knew they'd be ok on the plane because I knew you'd watch over them, and oddly that brought me some peace and made me a little less nervous. They're coming home on New Years Eve, so watch over them again please. They're hard to recognize these days. Justin's growing his hair long, he's got that guitarist look going on but he is sweet as can be. Sarah on the other hand, our rebel child, is going shorter and shorter with her hair, and dear God she wants to dye it black. The morbid look. Or as she calls it.... Emo. Ugh. I pick and choose my battles with her. She gets straight A's, doesn't drink, smoke, or party, and isn't pregnant. I guess I'm doing ok with them. Haha! They're both all about their hair... Gee... Not sure where they got that from... Thanks a lot! Haha!! Anyhow.... That's it... If in any odd Devine way you can kinda sway Sarah off the black hair thing I'd appreciate it, but if not.... Just keep watching over them as you do.
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Karen posted a condolence
Friday, December 25, 2015
Merry Christmas in heaven baby.....I hope you are at peace....I saw the kids yesterday for a couple of minutes....they are getting so grown up looking....they made it down to Florida today to stay with your parents for the week.....so different without you.....I love you!!
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Mom posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 16, 2015
Jimmy honey I can't believe it's been six months since that dreadful morning. We feel the pain as if it were yesterday. Christmas is almost here. It won't be the same. How beautifully you decorated your tree. The cookies we made. The special meals. The Honeymooner's marathon, A Christmas Story. Janie hung a "leg lamp" on our tree for you.We hide our tears so we don't ruin it for others. Sometimes happiness is hard to bear.The traditions we made as a family will continue forever. Know that we love you. As we celebrate we know you are always near and carried in our hearts. Love Mommy
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Karen posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 1, 2015
Well we are coming up on 6 months since you left this life to be in peace....your parents are leaving on Saturday for Florida for the winter...new snow birds....gonna be so strange celebrating my birthday, Christmas, New Years without you this year.....I miss ya bunka!!!
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AnnMarie posted a condolence
Thursday, November 26, 2015
So I'm trying to come up with my response to the annual thanksgiving dinner question that goes around the table "what are you thankful for this year". The responses are almost always the same every year but this year's is slightly different. I'm always thankful for my kids, but this year I'm thankful for you. That you're at peace, that you're somewhere up in heaven to watch over them and guide them. Im thankful that they're mature enough to understand that you were in pain and that they know you're in a better place. I'm thankful that they have traits that are so inherently yours. They are sarcastically witty and just like you, it makes it so hard to stay mad at them for very long because they're just so damn funny. On that note Jimmy, Happy Thanksgiving..... And Gobble Gobble. You are fondly missed.
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Ann Marie posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 10, 2015
Well Sarah passed her written drivers ed test. Now the fun begins.... I can see it now..... "Mom, can I borrow your car?" "Mom, it was an accident, I didn't mean to hit the other car." "Mom, if I just had my own car I wouldn't need to borrow yours all the time." "Mom, how am I supposed to get a job to pay my insurance if I don't have a car to get to work?" Oh yes.... The 'fun'. Watch over her would ya? Please.
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Mom posted a condolence
Monday, October 12, 2015
Jimmy we needed you today, you weren't here. Like a missing puzzle piece, it's driving me mad.
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Ann Marie posted a condolence
Monday, October 12, 2015
If only you were here to see Justin play his guitar. You'd be so impressed, and so proud. He's getting really good! His instructor had him play for me today, and both he and I were beaming. Sarah received an academic Excelsior award for maintaining straight A's all last year. Unfortunately I was traveling for work, so I missed her ceremony, but I was so glad your parents were there for her. You'd be really proud of them Jimmy.
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Mom posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 29, 2015
Today is September 28, 2015. What do I count? Tuesdays or months? Either way it's so long since I've seen you, hugged you, had tea with you.My heart breaks as life goes on without you.Justin is taller than Sarah, his feet are bigger than yours, the mustache is gone, he shaved for the first day of school. Every time his voice cracks I hear you teasing him. He's dedicated to guitar lessons and cherishes your guitar. He wants to let his hair "grow longer than DADS!" Please if you can, keep them on the straight and narrow. You of all people know how hard it is to grow up. They have had enough "hard luck" in their young lives. I know you will be there on October 7, as Sarah receives her award. They are such good kids, images of you and AnnMarie. If only you knew how important you were, you'd still be here. xoxo Mommy
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Karen posted a condolence
Friday, September 25, 2015
Not a day goes by that you aren't on my mind....hoping you are at peace.....I will always love you
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Karen posted a condolence
Sunday, September 13, 2015
First day of Giants regular season against the Cowgirls.....hope they win one for you baby.....Miss you so much....Go Big Blue....wish so much you were here to watch it together
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Ann Marie posted a condolence
Friday, September 11, 2015
16 yrs ago today I married my best friend and love of my life at that moment in time. And though we grew apart, and that kind of love faded and became bittersweet, I still remember fondly those memories. I never imagined that 16 years later you wouldn't be here to fight with, scream at, get frustrated with, or be mad at. Today I miss the man that stood before me 16 years ago. The man I danced with, to "From this Moment". I've chosen to only remember the good, and there was so much good. Unbeknownst to us both that day, we would be connected forever and for that I'm truly grateful. 9 months and 2 days later Sarah was born, and I see all the good that was in you, in her and Justin everyday. You are thought of fondly today Jimmy. And so sadly missed. Much love to you today and I hope you're at peace.
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AnnMarie uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 3, 2015
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Your kids first day of school.
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Karen Bilza posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 2, 2015
Sarah's first day of sophomore year and your not here. Why Jimmy why?
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Karen lit a candle
Wednesday, August 26, 2015
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karen posted a condolence
Sunday, August 16, 2015
Well had the benefit last night.....it was awesome...I knew like 6 of your friends but every time someone came in that I didn't know it touched me...and I teared up...Jimmy so many people loved you baby...I miss you so much.....I'm trying to take care of your plants.....the one spider is so huge....gonna bring it to my work soon...god I want a hug so bad from you.......
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Karen posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 12, 2015
Well getting prepared for Saturday's benefit for Sarah and Justin's education....hope we raise a bunch of money....gonna take pics and show you how many people loved you baby....miss and think about you every day.....
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Karen posted a condolence
Friday, August 7, 2015
Sitting here just thinking about you...us...I miss you Jimmy....
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Karen lit a candle
Sunday, August 2, 2015
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Love you!!!
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Ann Marie posted a condolence
Friday, July 31, 2015
So it's your birthday today.... Sarah posted a pic on Instagram remembering you. They are making you cards right now which we're going to release tonight up at Split Rock... Tied to helium balloons. You loved Split Rock so I felt it appropriate to take them up there. So as soon as it gets dark, the balloons will go up and we'll be thinking of you. Happy Birthday.
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Karen posted a condolence
Friday, July 31, 2015
Happy Birthday up in heaven to my handsome man. I miss you so much every day....I love you boobala!!!
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Mommy posted a condolence
Friday, July 31, 2015
Just like we always did when you were little, I waited for midnight to wish you Happy Birthday. Now you will be 44 forever. I have no hiney to pinch to grow an inch, no giggles or tickles. The silence is deafening.
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Mommy posted a condolence
Sunday, July 26, 2015
A party at the Bilza's! How unusual, but planned without your help. Today is all about you. Your memorial. Not one to miss a party, I'm sure you'll be there in spirit. So many people who love you, gathering together to share you one more time. I can't believe THIS. We miss you so much. More each passing day. xo
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Karen posted a condolence
Saturday, July 25, 2015
Oh my Jimmy...your memorial service is tomorrow....I sat with your mom, dad. sister and cousin Michael making these beautiful vases with roses for you. Your mom insisted on adding your basil plants.....OMG they smell awesome...I miss you every day baby...
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patty Bilza lit a candle
Saturday, July 18, 2015
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Always thinking of you Jim. Your always on my mind. Love you . xoxo to you up in heaven
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Neil Shannon posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 14, 2015
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Bilza and family,
I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I was deeply saddened when I heard of his passing. Jimmy was such a great guy and friend. I shared more laughs with him then I can remember. Everyone loved Jimmy and always wanted to be around him as he was able to cheer anybody up and make them laugh. He was always willing to do anything for anyone and had such a big heart. Jimmy may be gone from us here, but, he will certainly NEVER be forgotten........He will be missed dearly. Thoughts and prayers to your entire family.
Love,
Neil and Andrea
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Patty Bilza lit a candle
Tuesday, July 14, 2015
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Love u Jim
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Justin Bilza lit a candle
Wednesday, July 8, 2015
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Cousin Ken uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, July 5, 2015
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I'm sure the year was 1987 when I tried to return to NJ with my young family. So long ago I barely remember. I'm happy we were able to reconnect recently. You were a good man Jim - your memory will live forever in my heart...
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michael bilza posted a condolence
Sunday, July 5, 2015
jimmy, jimmy, so many good times with you. it still hurts that your gone but i will make sure you are never forgotten. love always michael.
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Elvis holden posted a condolence
Thursday, July 2, 2015
Bilza you will be missed by many friends and Family. Rest in peace. Love you brother.
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Bill Grotto posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 30, 2015
Jimmy you will he missed by so many people. You were so honest, so pure such a living person. The world lost a beautiful person and your legacy and memory will never be forgotten. May you rest in peace my dear friend-
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Kate McCloskey Erdmann posted a condolence
Thursday, June 25, 2015
So sorry for your loss. Please know you family is in our thoughts and prayers.
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Wendy posted a condolence
Thursday, June 25, 2015
I still can't believe you are really gone Jimmy. You are part of some of my fondest childhood memories. I'll never forget calling Santa in the red room or watching Mel Brooks movies on DeCamp. I wish we had more time together in the recent years, but other commitments always seemed to get in the way... I always say how life is so unpredictable, but I never thought you would be taken away so suddenly and so young. Now every time I watch Forensic Files (which is ALOT), I will think of you :).
Love you Always Cuz
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Karen uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 23, 2015
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Typical Jimmy...goof ball
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Linda Gaeta posted a condolence
Monday, June 22, 2015
Karen and Mike,
I was so sad to read of your tremendous loss. I pray that God will comfort you at this time. I remember being in nursing school with you Karen and how you would light up when you spoke about your children. I can't imagine the heartbreak you are feeling at this time. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers
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Karen uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, June 21, 2015
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Oh when he finally decided I wasn't that old after all and had to use my specks......it all came back to you JMB!!!
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Mom B posted a condolence
Sunday, June 21, 2015
" A beautiful life"
A beautiful life
that came to an end,
he died as he lived,
everyone's friend.
In our hearts a memory
will always be kept,
of one we loved,
and will never forget.
This was copied from the prayer card we had for Jim. Some copies are available still
for those who would like a copy. Mom B
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Anne uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, June 21, 2015
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Jim's family would like this to be shared with all in memory of him.
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Harry & Irene Shannon posted a condolence
Sunday, June 21, 2015
Karen, Mike and Jane:
Words cannot express how sad we are to learn of Jimmy's passing. We have SO many fun memories of him - most especially RVS and Our Lady of Magnificat days. We will always lovingly recall Jimmy for his easy-going nature, wonderful sense of humor and a smile that could knock your socks off. We know that he is at peace and in God's loving embrace and pray that this will bring you comfort and help ease your sorrow.
With love, Irene & Harry
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Aileen posted a condolence
Friday, June 19, 2015
Time and distance mean nothing where there is love. Jimmy will be in our hearts forever.
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Joe Ward posted a condolence
Friday, June 19, 2015
My heart goes out to Mike, Karen, and Janie.....there are no words that anyone can say that will take away the sting that you are feeling right now with Jimmy's loss. Our families were so intertwined even before we were married. The time truly has flown since you and Anne would push the kids around the Belleville neighborhood, or play in our first home; your grandparents place on Tappan Ave. I hope all your wonderful memories of Jimmy will carry you through this difficult time. Just know that we are thinking of you as each day passes by as you lay Jimmy to rest.
Joe
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Mom posted a condolence
Friday, June 19, 2015
My Jimmy, how I love you. You won't believe it but I am thankful for the struggles you Dad and I had the last two years. Because of it, we had a relationship we hadn't had in years. Bittersweet now,, but had you had your health, would we have cooked together, watched cooking shows, forensic files marathons, drank that tea and honey until 3 in the morning. All those hours planning and planting. Holding each other. Never had we exchanged so many I love you's.xoxoxo
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Kevin and Jean Hendricks posted a condolence
Friday, June 19, 2015
Our deepest sympathy and condolences.
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Karen posted a condolence
Friday, June 19, 2015
Rest in peace my boobala..I will love you and miss you forever!!!
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Mark Mearin posted a condolence
Friday, June 19, 2015
my prayers go out to the Bilza family. I knew Jim as a kid and he was always very kind and friendly. I saw him a few times since high school and he was still a kind soul who loved to talk about his family. R.I.P dude!
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Jennifer Shawl posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Aunt Karen, Uncle Mike, Janie, Sarah, and Justin-
I was heartbroken to hear the news that Jimmy had passed away. All of my thoughts and prayers are with you right now. I quickly flashed back to a time when we were all young kids and spending summers together in your pool (loved that slide!) with our siblings. I can't recall a time when you weren't making us all laugh with your infectious personality and smile! I will treasure my childhood memories of the Bilza/Ward clan. May you rest in eternal peace my cousin friend... until we meet again.
Love, Storm, "Jennie", Kayla, Ava, and Shayna
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Greg Licciardi posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Jim was a great kid - I knew him most as a kid when we were good friends in grade school but from what I hear and read, his great soul and good nature being carried through with his family and friends into his adulthood. I am so sorry to hear this news - My prayers and condolences go out to Jim's family. All my best - Greg
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Anne posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Mike, Karen, Jane, Sarah and Justin,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. My memory of Jim will always be the blond headed boy with the beautiful blue eyes and always ready smile. You will be in my heart and thoughts forever. Rest peacefully.
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Al Riccio posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Mike, Karen & Jane, I am so so sorry to hear of the loss of Jimmy! However at least he is now in total peace! May the love of the Lord bring comfort to you all in this trying time! I have many fond memories of you all!
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Leslie Cromer lit a candle
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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Leslie Cromer posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
My greatest condolences tp his kids. He was a sweet man.
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Patty Bilza posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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Love you Jim. Rest in Peace. I will miss you forever xoxo
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Jamie Novoshelski Galdi lit a candle
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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I am so sorry for your loss. I met Jim through my husband John, and it is my hope they are together, and comforting each other as we comfort each other here.
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John Storey lit a candle
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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Mike, Karen and all of Jim's Family. My heart goes out to you. Jim and all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. ~ John
Jayne Rogers lit a candle
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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Jerry Schultz posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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The memories I have with Jim through my childhood standout because i cant remember a single time we were at odds. Just a great guy with a huge heart that forever had a smile. My heart goes out to you all. I'm glad to have known Jim and to have shared so much of my youth with him.
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Sharon Klingener lit a candle
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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Sharon Klingener posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Thoughts and prayers go to Jim's family. He will be missed. I have known Jim most of my life such a great person. RIP Jim
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Toni Basilio lit a candle
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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Toni Basilio posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family especially his beautiful children,loving parents,& to his girl Karen who loved Jim with all her heart. Jim was always such a good friend to me since HS and I am heartbroken that he is gone as are many. I pray that my sweet friend is at peace. Love you Jimmy I'll miss you and your smile with all my heart
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Kaye & Hugh posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Mike, Karen & Jane,
Our prayers and love are with you.
Love & Peace
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Angela Morizio lit a candle
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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Mike,
Thinking of you and your family. Take care.
Angela Morizio
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Angela Morizio posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Dear Mike and Karen,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God bless you!
Angela Morizio
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Stacie lit a candle
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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Mike, my prayers are with you and your family. My deepest condolences.
Stacie Stout
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Ann Marie lit a candle
Thursday, June 18, 2015
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Thank you for giving me the 2 most precious gifts, Sarah and Justin.
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Nicole Heller posted a condolence
Thursday, June 18, 2015
A good friend for over 20 years, and one who never failed to make me laugh; I think just about every memory I have of Jim is a fun and funny one, and all of them remain as clear in my mind as the day they happened. There are far too many good times with Jim and our many mutual longtime friends to recount, and I know that I will always miss him.
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Joanie posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
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Jimmy, miles and life have seperated us in person but you have always and will always be in my heart. Love you cousin...
Aunt Karen, Uncle Mike and Jane, words cannot express the sorrow my heart feels for all of you.
Sending prayers of a peace that passes all understanding. I love you all.
Only the good die young.
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The Mott Family lit a candle
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Fritz, Kathleen, Brianna & Bryce
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Rachel Giron posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
Dear Bilza Family,
I was so very saddened to hear of Jim's passing. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I have many wonderful and special memories of Jim. He had a kind heart, a great sense of humor, and his cooking was second to none. Most of all he loved Sarah and Justin so very much and was so very proud of them always. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and with Jim.
Sincerely,
Rachel Giron
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Sandy lit a candle
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
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Love you so much Jimmy, always will. miss you
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Jane Reeves lit a candle
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
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Miss ya lots, Jimbo. Love ya lots!!!
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