Tribute Wall
Monday
25
September
Visitation
9:00 am - 11:30 am
Monday, September 25, 2023
Norman Dean Home for Services
16 Righter Avenue
Denville, New Jersey, United States
(973) 627-1880
Monday
25
September
Funeral Service
11:30 am - 12:30 pm
Monday, September 25, 2023
Norman Dean Home for Services
16 Righter Avenue
Denville, New Jersey, United States
(973) 627-1880
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Dada lit a candle
Thursday, November 21, 2024
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Aubrey, your family still misses you and wishes you were here.
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Mama lit a candle
Tuesday, September 17, 2024
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Always thinking of you my sweet Aubrey. Mama
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Jing You lit a candle
Tuesday, September 10, 2024
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Dada lit a candle
Tuesday, June 4, 2024
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Jing lit a candle
Tuesday, March 26, 2024
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Mama uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, January 2, 2024
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My dearest Aubrey,
My heart beats with longing to see your smiles that flash your dimples, your impromptu dances to any melodies, your endearing hugs and wet kisses, your stubbornness when you refuse to eat certain food, your patient and sweet temperament, your love of being outside, and everything else. I miss your little mannerisms, your habits, your voice, your presence - the essence of you. Each day without you still hurts so much. We’re holding on tight to our memories of you and our love will never fade. We love you to the last number.
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静阿姨 uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, December 26, 2023
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Today is 100 days since your death. What a cruel joke it is that it should be so close to your 100 days of life. I don’t know where you are now, but it doesn’t even matter because you should be here. And the only reason you’re not here is that we didn’t create a safe space for you. I will carry this for the rest of my days, but it’s all meaningless to you now. Wherever you are, I hope that it’s a less cruel and unjust world than the one you left behind.
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patti lit a candle
Sunday, December 24, 2023
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Missing you my sweet love
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Patti lit a candle
Wednesday, November 22, 2023
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Aubrey, Grandpa and Patti miss you so much. We speak of you everyday. You are so dear to us and we will always love you. We miss our weekend day together, we missed you at Diwali and we just miss you. You are in our hearts forever. Love you so much.
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Mama lit a candle
Sunday, November 19, 2023
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Dear Aubu,
It’s hard to fathom the days that have passed without you in our lives. It’s hard to know we’ll never make new memories together. Your passing has left a meteoric hole in our family, in our hearts. You brought us so much joy and happiness. We love and miss you more than anything in this world. We will always remember and cherish the bright moments and memories that you brought us.
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Dada lit a candle
Tuesday, November 7, 2023
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Aubrey... if my love could have prevented your accident, you would still be here by my side. If my sadness could bring you back, I would be sprinting over to find you. Unfortunately there is nothing I can do to reverse the misfortune you suffered that day. I can hold on to your memory for the rest of my life, but nothing can remove the pain of how short of a time you were here. You deserved a lot more than 18 months. I know you would have a rich life if you were able to grow up. We spent a lot of time together and I'm sorry I don't have more pictures to post of the both of us together. Time won't reduce how much your family misses you.
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Mama lit a candle
Thursday, November 2, 2023
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Aubrey, we're missing you everyday.
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Anonymous lit a candle
Tuesday, October 3, 2023
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I am deeply saddened by the news of your baby girl's passing. I understand that no words can ease your pain at this difficult time. I offer you my heartfelt prayers as you embark on a journey towards healing and inner peace. It is important to know that Aubrey was cherished and loved by everyone who had the privilege of meeting her.
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Mama uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 29, 2023
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My dear Aubu, Mama loves you to the last number. I love you so much and miss you every moment of everyday. You will always be my special little girl. Looking at your photos and videos will never be enough. I wish I could hug and hold you again.
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Dada uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 29, 2023
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We had so much fun while you were around. Wish we had more time together. I always enjoyed having you nap in my arms while I just went for a walk outdoors. I will always cherish every memory of you.
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Valerie Tom posted a condolence
Monday, September 25, 2023
Your time in this world was way too short, but the joy and love you brought to your family is endless. I will remember the happiness in your mom’s voice as we celebrated your milestones. Those memories can never be taken away and will live on forever. Bless you, sweet girl.
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Mama uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, September 24, 2023
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Hey Aubrey, your big brother asks us if you’re coming home all the time. We told him you went to live in a house in Heaven. He misses you and we miss you so much too.
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Jing uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, September 24, 2023
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Sweet Aubrey, I’ll never forget how much you loved babies (and dogs), even though you were also a baby.
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Mama uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, September 24, 2023
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Aubrey loved to climb into the bins and boxes, big or small.
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Sandy uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, September 24, 2023
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Sweet Aubrey,
Although I only met you a couple of times and I wish it was way more. My fondest memory of you was you sprawling out in your stroller after a hot fday of roaming storm king - the sass was very on par with the rest of the women in our family.
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Marisa uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, September 24, 2023
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Dear sweet Aubrey, you brought us so much joy. We will always cherish the precious moments we were lucky to share with you.
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Winnie posted a symbolic gesture
Sunday, September 24, 2023
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Aubrey, I only met you a handful of times and wished it was more. The only core memory I have is you wanted to pet Ahri and she gave you the biggest lick ever.
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Mama uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, September 23, 2023
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You loved the snapchat doggie filter and every time we tried to take a normal picture, you would stick out your tongue to get the doggy filter to activate
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Mama uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, September 23, 2023
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Pop pop pop for all the bubbles, Aubrey!
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Neela uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 22, 2023
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I will miss you waving bye in the morning, it was fun watching you run in the yard.
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Tina uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 22, 2023
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Thank you for bringing joy to your grandpa and grandma. They love you so so much.
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Tina uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 22, 2023
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The piggy hat looked so cute on you ❤️
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Tina uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 22, 2023
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Aubrey you brought so much joy to so many in our family ❤️
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patti uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 22, 2023
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You liked the swing as much as Patti
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patti uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 22, 2023
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I will miss playing Chase and Stomp Stomp with you, my love. We did a lot of that when we visited great grandma Rose
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Sally Ren uploaded photo(s)
Friday, September 22, 2023
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I will miss your sweet chunky, chill self. I'm so glad to have met and held you.
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patti uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Each time we get a mango or strawberry fruit pop, we will think of you my sweet love.
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patti uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Grandpa's little sweetheart
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patti uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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We sure had a fabulous time at the Bronx zoo
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Jing You uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Jing You uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Little Aubrey, the world will never be as bright without you in it. But where the sun shone, the warmth lingers. We will always remember you with fondness and cherish. Your memory is more than the cruelty that took you away.
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touchpointpeds@aol.com Posted Sep 22, 2023 at 7:25 PM
Sweet Aubrey- while I was not the pediatrician in our office who saw you most often, I remember how much interest you showed in the world around you, even when you were not feeling your best! You and Emmitt took such joy in each other and he was so attentive and protective when with you in our office.. Know how much you were loved, especially by your family- and they know how much you loved them. We will remember your smile.
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Jing You uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Patti uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Patti uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Tina uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, September 21, 2023
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Aubrey, you will always be in the hearts of Aunt Tina and Uncle Evan. Your gentle touch with animals, your cutest smile, your little wiggles to music—I will always remember and cherish. The last few times I saw you, you would kiss your palm and turn it around and wave goodbye in front of your mouth. I wish this wasn’t goodbye and I could see you and hold you again. We love you! We promise to take care of your older brother and parents and try to find the light in the world again ❤️
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anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, September 21, 2023
I don't know your family but my prayers are with you.
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The family of Aubrey Mia Vars uploaded a photo
Wednesday, September 20, 2023
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