Contributions to the tribute of William H.S. Townend

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dave townend posted a condolence

Tuesday, December 2, 2003

you were a devoted son and patriot, an unselfish husband and parent, and I can only pray that I can be like you. I ache daily for not honoring you as I should have in your lifetime-but honor younow and forever. Love, Dave I love you and pray that I can be like you-a devoted so n, an I love y0 pu Pop and pray that i i love thecommitted patriot, the loyal and selfless husband 6668and father,and deserving of far more reverence from me in his lifetime,and that causes me to ache every day.

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Scott Townend posted a condolence

Friday, November 15, 2002

Grammy- I hope this note finds you well. I know this must be a trying time for you. But I also know that your solid faith will sustain you through this hard time. I love you and look forward to talking soon. My phone number in Dallas is 214-342-0936. God Bless. -Scott

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Helen Heindel posted a condolence

Thursday, November 14, 2002

I have to add another funny memory I have of Dad. I first learned about isometric exercises from Dad. He would tell me that you could exercise anywhere: in a car, in an airplane, or at your desk. You just needed to practice muscle resistence. Dad would demonstrate how he would exercise on the train or at his desk by placing his hand against his head and pushing as hard as possible for at least thirty seconds. Gymnasiums weren't necessary for Dad's workout. In additon to isometrics, he was an avid golf club swinger and he liked to spin. To spin, no exercise bike was necessary; all you needed was floor space, and you could spin. We all cracked up to watch Pop turn in circles with his arms out at shoulder height to balance himself. He would do this as part of his daily exercise regimen in his later years. I asked Mom if she was worried he would get dizzy and fall, she responded: "Well, he hasn't fallen yet!" Thanks, Dad... for all the fitness inspiration with minimum perspiration.

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Anne Townend-Duffey posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 13, 2002

A few thoughts. As I was gathering photos these past few days for Dad's services, I realized how in each one, he had this quiet smile, especially when looking at the grandkids. Dad was really 'softie' underneath his serious,academic,engineer exterior. Mom knew this better than any of us. Over the past 20 years or so, I got to know the real Dad .His kindness, his humor and always being ready to help us. Even as recent as last Spring, he offered to carry my bags when I came to visit them. Each morning, he would come to the breakfast table and say to Mom" well My Love, whats the plan for today?" and Mom would always have a plan, either an outing or a simple walk on the chickadee trail at St. Francis. I will also remember Dad's expertice at toasting English muffins. Just like his waffles, he had it down to a science!Dad did very well for himself in life and I know we will carry his legacy of love, kindness and generosity into the future, through our lives as well as our childrens lives. Your the Best Dad! Love Anne and family

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Joel Burlingham posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 13, 2002

Dear Mary and family, It has been such a privilege coming to know you all through my working relationship with Marion at the university library. I realize that being with you at Bill's passing was a profound and sacred experience, and I am grateful to have been included. Your family is extraordinary, Mary, as is your steadfast faith. In the future I hope to share a story with you. As that opportunity presents itself, I trust it will be a worthy gift. Joel

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Rita Townend-Boratav posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 13, 2002

A few more loving memories about Dad... Attention, Interest and Repetition or AIR as Dan Duffey mentioned. That's the secret to being a good student. Some of Dad's favorite forms of exercise: spinning, jogging in place, and walks with Mom. Remember our one-day trips to the shore in the old red Volkswagen bus? and coming back all sunburned and tired from the salt and sea. Pancakes on Sunday mornings and years later waffles (with Dad's precise timing) served with Mom's warm homemade applesauce. The quiet of a Saturday afternoon golf game on T.V. and Dad's watching it during supper sometimes. This would be the only time we ever had the T.V. on during supper. Dad's alma mater (and where Olus and I met during grad. school) -- GO RUTGERS!!! His chipperness in the morning, his love for reading, and of course, the golf course. His corner retreat in his chair in the living room and the shelf above the T.V. where he'd put his wallet and loose change at the end of the day. HIS GENEROSITY! And another lesson he taught me when I was feeling low about attending a state school during undergrad. years vs. a more prestigious university -- he said it's not the school that makes the student but the student that makes the school. love and peace! Rita

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Emma posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 13, 2002

Pop Pop would always say funny things when I showed him my toys. He would say that my dolls were his. That made me laugh! I will miss him. Love, Emma

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Diane M. Beck posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 13, 2002

Our hearts are mourning the loss of a great soul. Yet his soul is at eternal rest and peace forever. We love you all dearly and our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow. Diane and Andrew Beck

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Dan Duffey posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 13, 2002

I have to say, you were a remarkably good sport about the last couple of years. I did get to go golfing with you once...so thank you for that and I've got the whole secret to success thing AIR...Attention, Interest and Repetition. I probably use that sayin to much anyway. Love Dan

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Stephen P. Heindel posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 12, 2002

Pop.... I will be forever grateful that you told me how Real Football is played. Wearing pads, helmet, and cleats on astro turf or soft grass does not constitute real football!!! REAL FOOTBALL is played in the cinders during recess in Somers Point, NJ. You would roll your pants and shirt sleeves up so Muzzy wouldn't see the black marks on your elbows and knees from groveling in the cinders. The men were separated from the boys in the cinders. I'm happy that you excelled at Real Football. Love, Steve

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Alissa Heindel posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 12, 2002

Hola, Como Esta Usted?.... Familiar words from Pop-Pop's recent years. What a funny guy you are Pop-Pop! Your sense of humor made my days with you so much fun. Your zest for life and health is so encouraging, I vividly remember your exercise lessons at Fox Hill involving the weighted mini golf club that you would swing around in circles. Your love for Grandma, family, and friends will be circular forever. I Love you Pop-Pop, Stay in Touch!

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William H. Townend posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 12, 2002

I just found out the news and I am struck with an overwhelming sadness. I had a feeling that something was wrong today or out of place or missing. I just found out from Katie that he passed and I know that he was speaking to me today and telling me from heaven that he had arrived. I did not know him well but I know the kind of man that he must have been through my father. My father has instilled in me that work ethic that he was given. There is something to be said about any man who can raise five kids and who will put them through college. I know how good a man "Pop-Pop" was through his son and I am forever grateful for that gift. I will continue to live my life in such a way that will honor my family through my own accomplishments. I will also continue to carry "Pop-Pop's" name with dignity, gratitude, and respect. I only hope and pray that I can carry his name with the class that he did. His Loving Grandson, William H. Townend

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Audrey posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 12, 2002

I love you, Pop-Pop. I will see you in heaven someday. I will miss you. Love, Audrey

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Andrew, Bill, Scott and Katie Townend posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 12, 2002

A Poem Pop Pop... was a man of love. His heart was soft full of compassion. Even when we thought death could not send a slim ray of hope we'll be amazed at what will happen. The good news is.. He'll never leave our hearts and our faithful lord will allow us to start.. to learn from our mistakes and begin loving others the way Pop Pop did. We'll share in the joy that we know we all missed for so many years. For so many years, we put our hearts on hold we told ourselves tomorrow, and tomorrow came and we've all gotten old, forgetting the things that we could of remembered to get off the chest and humbly confess the way that we feel and then it's like magic we begin to heal, but with a loss so great all we can do is wait... wait for that white pearly gate to open its doors and grace us with a man who did all he can to raise his family to instill displine to try and listen, to love and submit to the woman he'll never forget and as he looks down from Heaven and sees our frowns Pop Pop will bless our days. especially when they're gray and give the signal to our Holy God to send a few angels to clear out the fog and tell us to open our heart and to not be afraid of the once frightening, and once impassible dark Even though, we strayed so far... God allows us to be forgiven. and Pop Pop loved us all even when he could not find the names or the words to express the beautiful song that he sang in his heart and even though we never heard our familiar names, they are all the same, We are children of God. and Pop Pop knew he knew in his spirit, what should of been spoken with that painfully blank, but innocent smile. love in Christ's name, The Townend kids, Andrew,Bill, Scott and Katie

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Andrew, Bill, Scott and Katie Townend posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 12, 2002

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Ethan Duffey posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

I remember my grandpa as being a realy nice guy. I remember the yellow house that I used to visit and his chair in the corner of the room. I would sit on the couch and he would ask me how I was and how school was going. He also had some army stuff that i used to look at and ask him about. He was a caring person and would not hesitate in answering my questions. I didnt get to know him very well, but he was always my "grandpa."

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Rita Townend-Boratav posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

I just spoke to Aunt Marion, who is five years younger than Dad. She offered some wonderful memories about him, "I thought the sun rose and set in him...he used to call me Matt. He worked as a caddy and always had money, even though it was depression time. Golfers would request him since he had such a good eye. He'd ask me to go the store to get something 'three for a dime' and then I'd get to keep one. He was always studying. Once when we told him we were going out to a movie, he said ok, and just kept on studying. When we came back, he didn't realize that we had actually gone out to a movie. He was so focused on his studying that he didn't even hear us! On Mother's Day he always had money to buy Muzzy a box of candy. He was close to his mother as we all were."

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Rita Townend-Boratav posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

I just spoke to Aunt Marion, who is five years younger than Dad. She offered some wonderful memories about him, "I thought the sun rose and set in him...he used to call me Matt. He worked as a caddy and always had money, even though it was depression time. Golfers would request him since he had such a good eye. He'd ask me to go the store to get something 'three for a dime' and then I'd get to keep one. He was always studying. Once when we told him we were going out to a movie, he said ok, and just kept on studying. When we came back, he didn't realize that we had actually gone out to a movie. He was so focused on his studying that he didn't even hear us! On Mother's Day he always had money to buy Muzzy a box of candy. He was close to his mother as we all were."

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Michael Duffey posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

I remember Grandpa would hum music during dinners we had with him. When Grandma and Grandpa moved out of Fox Hill Road, I got a box of his golf balls and a few clubs of his. He was careful to tell me not to hit anyone with the club! Sometimes I have fun hitting golf balls out into our back woods. Thanks Grand-pa, I'll miss seeing you. Love Mike

Adrian Duffey posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

Adrian is the youngest of he 24 grandchildren. He is 3 1/2. When asked about what he wanted to say about Grandpa Townened he said" well, he just died. I would say bye grand-pa, I love you!"

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isabel boratav posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

Dear Pop-Pop, I love you. love, Isabel

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olus boratav posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

I remember Dad's sisters talking about him when we were in California. Both Aunt Betty and Aunt Marion were very proud of their brother. They were proud of his intelligence and his love for them. I always felt very comfortable with him. His down to earth-ness, his sense of humor, and his precision with numbers (and recipes that he knew-I mean the waffle iron timing). Love. Olus

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Marion Wells posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

I love you, Dad. You are in my heart forever. Love, Babs

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Janine Heindel posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

I share so many sentiments with all who have written here. One of the things I'll always remember about Pop Pop was his ability to give endless advice on how to be tops. #1 in academics, #1 at athletics, #1 all around was the goal. I can't say I ever succeeded at being #1 but his desire for all surrounding him to succeed is an inspiration. He has provided much good advice and has made me laugh time and time again. I have so much love for you Pop Pop. You are missed. Love Janine

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Cyndi Townend posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

Dear Dad Townend, I have only had the honor of meeting you once. But I am able to feel your intelligence, love, humor, & family devotion through your family. My husband has all of those qualities of yours, esp: your sense of humor! God must be happy to see you at His Home! You've done well!!, Love Cyndi

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Rita Townend-Boratav posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

Dad has done so much for his family. He never ran away from his responsibilities. He was always the first one up to catch that early train on cold winter days to New York City to provide for us. The love that he and Mom shared was sacred and beautiful. He was a wonderful example to all of us watching. I will miss him. love, Rita

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Mike posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

Dad was kind of leave us alone when it came to the kids but he was always there for us. I remeber once while playing Pebble Beach Golf Course there was a large cliff to my right that lead to the ocean, he turned to me and said, "Don't go right." I did. I will miss you Dad.

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Anonymous posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

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Virginia R. Davis posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

To the Townsend family: My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. Virginia R. Davis

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Jeanmarie Townend posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

Dear Pop, Although we have known each other only a few short years, you will always be in my heart as the beloved father of the man I love, and the "Pop-Pop" of Audrey, Katie, Scott, Bill and Andrew. Saturday morning, Audrey told her Daddy not to cry, because you were in heaven with God because you loved Jesus. There were no more tears, only smiles after that!

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Mary Heindel posted a condolence

Monday, November 11, 2002

I thank God that I was able to be a part of Pop Pop's life. His spirit will live forever in all of us. We each carry a piece of his kind heart, intelligent mind, hilarious sense of humor, and love for life. I can not help but remember his neon colored hat that he would wear to shovel snow in or the pile of magazines he kept next to his recliner. I love you Pop Pop and will miss you. May God bless you. Love, Mary

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Joe posted a condolence

Sunday, November 10, 2002

Dad was gifted with a very strong mind and in my youth I was in awe of his mastery of electronics and mathematics. His engineering mindset I think colored his outlook on life and supported his "just the facts" style. When asked what the secret to business is, his classic answer: "Find a need and fill it." I remember the many good times, a trip to New York City to see Around the World in 80 Days and all the sports games and events he showed up to cheer for, and countless other caring moments. I wish we had talked more over the years, but thankfully I was able to say goodbye to him on Friday and feel that he is definitely in a good place now.

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Anne Townend-Duffey posted a condolence

Sunday, November 10, 2002

I have to say, Dad would be impressed by this latest website technology! I just wanted to express my gratitude to Dad for all he gave me throughout his life,with one of the deepest gifts being the final days shared with him and Mom and having the honor to be present for his death. He was a man of great strength,dignity love,devotion and integrity and he exited this life with those same qualities.I feel so honored to be his daughter. Thank- you Dad! Love Always Anne

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Doug Heindel posted a condolence

Sunday, November 10, 2002

Although in the last couple of year my grandfather had forgotten who I was. I look back on the years we shared together, and remember the good times we had. He was the one who gave me the passion I have for golf. Everytime I get on that first tee I will think of you, grandpa. God bless.

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Helen Heindel posted a condolence

Sunday, November 10, 2002

Dad has showed us the way to live and die with grace and dignity. He will be with us forever. Love always, Helen

In loving memory of

William

1917 - 2002