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Susan Tarrence posted a condolence
Saturday, August 8, 2015
I came across this obituary while I was doing research for a book that is set in Passaic, NJ. I have only the fondest memories of Father Anthony McLaughlin who served in St. Nicholas Parish in the mid-60's. When I was in the 5th grade, he made a particular impression on me and all my classmates. I think he had just arrived at St. Nick's or he was introducing himself to the 5th graders so we could get to know him better. He tried to engage us and I guess he wanted us to remember him -- so he stood on his head in the corner of our class, his cassock up around his head. Wow. We were amazed and felt so lucky to have this awesome, fun priest in our midst. He had wavy red hair and was very handsome, with the rosiest cheeks. All the girls in St. Nick's school had a big crush on him. If he died at 76 in 2011, in 1963, he was the youngest priest we'd ever known. About 28 years old. I have never forgotten him and remember that we thought he was an A+ addition to our parish.
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Jackie Linehan posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
dear Fr. Anthony will hold a special place in my heart forever. His understanding, compassion, sense of humor,and dedication to the seniors at Sunrise Asst. Living in Randolph was very special. He was loved and will be missed greatly. Thank you Fr. Anthony.
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Marge Kleiner posted a condolence
Saturday, October 29, 2011
I just met Father in August. He was humble and had a wonderful aura of love. He was a witness for my Will. I was having an operation and he assured me that everything was going to be fine. I AM SO LUCKY TO HAVE EVN MET HIM FOR A SHORT TIME. hE WAS SURELY A BLESSED MAN.
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Harriett & Clinton Rex posted a condolence
Friday, October 28, 2011
We were so sad to read of Father's passing. We met him in the Painten' Place in July and had a wonderful chat with him while there. We also found out that he was the Mr. Mac our sons had as a substitute teacher at Valleyview. He made great impressions on them both. Father also subed at St. Catherine's and his homilies were always lively. Rest in peace, Father.
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Peggy Leo posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Fr. Mac was a wonderful priest and an even better friend. As principal of Bayley Ellard, he was always there to be a driend to parents and students alike, but you always knew who was in charge. He never asked anyone to do something he was not willing to do - feed gardens, plants flowers, paint ceilings. One of my daughters friends reflected that Fr. Mac's motto to the students was always " Work hard, Play hard, pray hard" Not only did he teach that but he lived that. Fr. Mac will be greatly missed, especially by one deacon who had a special relationship with him and who will always expect the quick comeback. God Bless Fr. mac.
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Thomas and Debra Reilly posted a condolence
Monday, October 24, 2011
May the Lord light your way to heaven.
Thanks for being a good friend.
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Imelda Gallagher posted a condolence
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Rest In Peace Father Anthony. Your cousin Patrick (Gallagher)Manchester, will be saddened to hear of your passing.
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Carolann Duncan posted a condolence
Saturday, October 22, 2011
On behalf of the Duncan family we are all very saddened to hear of Father
Anthony's passing. he was such a special man and was part of every wedding,
christening , funeral in our family for as long as I can remember. The last
time we saw him he was officiating my Dad's ,James Duncan Memorial Service
on Long Island . He made the ceremony not only easier for our family but a
celebration for all of us . I loved to hear storys of Malin Head from him
and my Grandmother Francis McLaughlin Duncan and my Great Aunt's Helen and
Bridget McLaughlin and my Cousin Cece Doyle Slack. I did get there with my
sister Rosemary and did see the farm in Malin Head where our Grandmother Fannie McLaughlin and her family were raised , so nice for us we were met by a man J. Doherty who knew our family in the driveway where her farm still stood. I loved how excited Father Anthony was to know that we were able to visit his beloved Donegal, Ireland. He will be missed and loved by all of us and everyone who had the pleasure to know him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Carolann Duncan and the Duncan Family , Orlando , Florida
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Thomas O'Brien posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Tony will be greatly missed by me as well as others. I will miss the morning we spent together.Its so hard going to work and not seeing him pull up in his orange car.I will miss him straighten up my produce dept as well as sampling fruit for him. Tony was always there for me, helping me through difficult times in my life, and offering his most useful advise. Tony was always there for my family when my mother and father both had heart attacks. He never met them before but went out of his way to sit with them while they where in the hospital. And when my grandmother passed away he showed up and sat up on the alter. I will miss you so much Tony. I want to say thank you for always being there for me, and thank you for being my best friend. Tom O'Brien A @ P Produce dept.
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Brenda Doty posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Father, I wish I could be there at your final rest... My prayers to you and your family (you were a part of my family too) as you will be missed. My Denville visits will not be the same without your terrific hugs or great smile. You were there for me during a tough time in my life. I think I will always have the distinction of being the only bride that kissed you before kissing her husband. I remember saying THANK YOU FATHER, I was so grateful for your help. You did a great job father as we have been married 42 years.
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The Sobecki Family posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Thank you God for placing Fr. Tony in our lives...the best smile, the best talker, the best prayers...from being collared at the A&P...or joined in the bleachers watching Crusaders soccer, basketball and softball...discussions of faith journey , family life today and the challenges in education...or just a smile glad to see us...(we'll miss Fr. Tony ...)
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Andrew Doherty posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Fr. Anthony was a dear cousin to my father, married my parents, and was very comforting to my father when he was very sick. Our whole family enjoyed the energy and positive spirit he brought to even the toughest of situations. His true faith in God was apparent. Rest in peace.
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Allison Doty Fitzharris posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Seeing Tony was always a highlight of our vacations to see Grandma Hilda in Denville. Tony always seemed to happy to see us and made us feel so special! Our many prayers go out to the McLaughlin family.
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Rich Wisneski posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
I only knew Fr. Tony for the last five years, but I am a better person because of knowing him for just that short time. My kids knew of him as “Mr. Mac”, a substitute teacher in the Denville Schools. We would often see him holding court at Denville Bagels on Saturday mornings. Then he started filling in on weekends at St. Catherine of Siena in Mountain Lakes where we all got to know him. There he again connected with young people, particularly the altar servers. We also learned of his great sense of humor; I think some parishioners are still laughing at the “Bagpipes in Kentucky” joke he told in one of his sermons! I am grateful to have known him and to have seen the twinkle in his Irish eyes. My condolences to his family and to the Franciscan Sisters who have lost a great friend.
The Scofield Family posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be.So He put His arms around you and whispered “come to me.” With tearful eyes we watched you, and saw you pass away. Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best ...We will all miss Fr. Tony Mc Laughlin.
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Patricia posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Didnt know Father but read his Obit and being a Catholic (and Irish too! :)) I was so impressed with his life story. I just had to respond. God Bless you Father and the other fine priests that don't get the fair press they deserve but God knows what you did and that is all that matters in the end!
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MARGARET BITECOLA posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Margaret Bitecola, I really appreciated father Tony Mclaughlin because he is a very kind loving charismatic person he taught me how to drive a car. I know father is in heaven and I know he's gonna pray for my husband and I Dan and Mary. We will miss him VERY MUCH!
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Martin and Ann Corbett posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Morris Catholic Class of 1975
A fine Irishman, a faithful priest and a kind hearted Principal...Fr. McLaughlin himself
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Winifred Cutler posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
He was a wonderful man and I was blessed by his present in my life. He will be miss, but not forgotten.
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Kathleen Kwiatkowski posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
I don't remember a time when Father was not part of my life. He was always there for us and truly is considered family.
Thank you for the love, guidance and happy memories.
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Barbara Jones posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Father McLaughlin was an inspiration to all who met him. He enriched the lives of many people by his love and encouragement. I will miss his big smile, laugh and friendly manner. He was a dedicated priest and reached out to all.I'm sure the Lord was waiting for him with opened arms.He helped my brother-in-law Bob through cancer and was at his bedside when he passed away.I'm truly blest to have known Father McLaughlin. My condolences to Father's brother and sisters and his many nieces and nephews.You will miss him. God bless you all.
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Maria Crusellas-Coutts posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
MCHS'73. Thank you for all you did for me and my fellow students. You touched and guided so many lives. You are missed. You are at Peace in the arms of Our Lord. My sincere condolences to your family.
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Marygrace Tiersch Van Saun class of 78 @ MC posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
On behalf of The Van Saun family, I would like to extend our deepest condolences to Fr. McLaughlin and his family. I knew Fr. from attending Morris Catholic and he was and always has been a special man. He was always so kind when I saw him in the halls and I also had the pleasure of meeting up with Father after many years when he was a substitute at Lakeview Elementary School. We had lovely chats and he never once not asked about the rest of "the Van Saun Clan" as he called us and especially asking about my mom and dad. He truly was a special soul and will be missed. How ironic to have the word "Laugh" in his name because you could always count on him for a good laugh, smile, and firm hand shake. Its our loss but heavens gain! Rest in Peace
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Richard(dude)Biddiscombe posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Tony was a great person and a friend to many
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Kathleen MollahanLytle posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Fr.McLaughlin tried to recruit me for Morris Catholic (1972)but it was not in the cards.We would meet regularly at football games and he would refer to me as "Irish". After many years, we recently met at St. Catherine of Siena Church for my neice Maddie's Confirmation---he immediately recognized me and I told him that I married one of his former student's Anthony B. Lytle---throughout the years we always seemed to have a connection. Fr will be missed!"May the blessings of light be upon you,light without and light within".
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Marie and Don Dalton posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
We have only known Father Tony since he began saying masses at St. Mary's on weekends. He was always so friendly and won you over with his wonderful smile.He always loved to say something to make you laugh. We miss him already.
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Mary Lynn Redmond posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
My first memory of Fr. Mac is probably Thanksgiving Dinner 1966 when Aunt Hilda McCarter invited him to join us. He instantly became an Irish member of an Italian Family. I'm not sure if it was Aunt Hilda's coconut cream pie, or my mom Helen Cap's spaghetti sauce that kept him coming back. He married most of the cousins and presided over the funerals with his eloquent speaking and his ability to bring laughter through tears because he knew us all so well. Goodbye Anthony ---Rest in peace - we will miss you!!!
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Ann Marie Vasquez posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Didn't know Father McLaughlin. but have friends from Donegal. named Doherty Rest in Peace Father.
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Marie & John Fragomeni posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
John and I first met Fr. mac as students at Morris catholic. Throughout the years he remained a wonderful and caring friend. He married John and I in 1968 and again for our 25th anniversary Mass. He joked with our oldest son, Chris, the first day of school at Morris Catholic, putting the kid on the spot, as only Fr. mac could, by asking if "John Fragomeni" was his father. Not sure how to respond, Chris later that day asked me what Fr. mac meant. Well, I told him, dad and I were very different in school - I left it at that - to let Chris make up his own mind as to what Fr. Mac meant. We shared many great evenings together that John, myself and our children will always remember. My only regret is that he will not be able to celebrate our 50th - if we make it. God speed good father - you will alwys live in our hearts.
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Jo-Andrea Konyak-Lindsay posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
As a member of MCHS class of 1975, Fr. Mclaughlin was not just the Director but a very good friend to all of us! He was always smiling and happy.He was a great role model and made us proud to be his students.He was an incredible person and loving servant to the Church. He made a difference! Thank you Father Mc laughlin, you are in God's loving care now
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Mc Laughlin Family Ireland posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
On behalf of Fr Anthonys brother & sisters,nieces & nephews and the wider Mc laughlin family circle we would like to acknowledge the wonderful words written on this site and the great comfort we are taking from the knowledge that Anthony was much loved by his many friends in america . We would like to thank all those who have been of great support to Anthony during his illness and also to acknowledge the overwhelming support and generosity shown to his niece and nephew ( Sinead & Seamus ) while they have been in america. Anthony will soon be returning to his beloved Malin Head and we will be eternally grateful to his friends for the support they have shown. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam . ( on the right hand of God may his soul be )
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Art & Judy McMahon posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
To a gentle soul with a gift of genuiness with the young adults. It was an honor and priviledge to have been in your presence. God Bless you.
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Bill, Dawn, Kelsey and Mark Harris posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Fr. Tony had a special intuition for knowing when someone was in need. He was generous with his encouragement and words of wisdom. He was a cheerleader, cheering us on to be the best we could be. He has such a special place in our hearts and we will truly miss his presence in our lives. Our sincerest condolences to his family.
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Diane Leonard Beck and Andrew Beck posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Life is definitely not the same without Father's wit. Father was at my Dad's bedside with me while my Dad passed away. He officiated the declaration of my Dad's bench in Denville a year later. Father touched so many lives so deeply and he guided me spiritually for a long time after my Dad died. I witnessed the miracles that occurred firsthand in his Greystone Park ministry towards the end of his life. He was truly gifted and a comfort to so many people including a coworker of mine. Father's way reminds me of that old Diana Ross' song----- Reach out and touch somebodies hand make this world a better place if you can---- cause Father did just that. Blessings to all because all who knew him have lost a very dear man who was loved by all.
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Linda & David Van Pelt posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
I have never met a more caring priest than Father McLaughlin. He had such a special gift of communicating and reaching out to help and touch the lives of people of all ages. He was such a wonderful person. We will miss you.
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Sean Kwiatkowski & Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
While I was growing up, you were always the voice of reason that I've always admired. Thank you for letting me be part of your life, as my family and I have all these years, considered you very much part of our family. Til we meet again.
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Tom Ward posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
FR Tony was more than a priest, he was a great friend. The first time I met Fr Tony was in St Clare's and he said "did you see the mass I said this afternoon. I replied Ididn't know there was a mass. His reply ws the four people in the next room did. And my reply was , they are still trying to wake them up. He stayed and talked with us for an hour and a half and this was the beginning of a great friendship. I will miss the breakfast at Paul's after the
8;30 mass and the many picnics and dinners we had. We all enjoyed talking church stuff in a relaxed way. His calming manner will forever be with us and greatly missed.
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PJ Miller posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
I will deeply miss my friend and confidant. Heaven's gain is our loss. Your wit, humor and patience was a shining example for all. Whether as Fr Tony, or Mr. Mac, you served your Church, community and humanity with grace and joy.
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DeBois Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
We will miss seeing you visit your sweet sister Katie. God Bless.
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Harold & Joyce Lance posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Because of your attendence at the A&P, and your Irish wit, Harold would talk to you about our trips to Ireland. This year we met your family, it was one of the high lights of our trip. You will be missed by us. God Bless. Harold & Joyce
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J Patrick Fiore posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Father, you have been a friend and mentor to many a young person and as such, you have forever changed the landscape of the world. The world is a much better place because of you. Your legacy will continue to be lived out by hundreds of us who will keep you alive in our hearts. You will be missed...
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Jean Garvey Poggi posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Fr. McLaughlin was such a wonderful man; he was loved by all the students that came through the doors of Morris Catholic. He will be missed.
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Linda Castellucci posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Your warmth and wit will be missed. You were truly a special beloved priest. God Bless You and Thank You for you ministry. Have fun in Heaven Father Tony!
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Christine Covert Miller posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
On behalf of my mom, Kathy Covert, my aunt Sister Johnice and the rest of our family, please accept our deepest condolences on your loss. Fr. Tony was a very special man and will be sorely missed. May he rest in eternal peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with your during the difficult days ahead.
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Megan McCarter Barchetto posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
You were a bright light in my life and to so many. You will be missed. I will always cherish the fond and loving memories.
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Ann Shayka posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
It was always a joy to meet and greet you; most often at the A&P and nearby. Your every-ready smile and quick wit lightened all concerns. Thank you.
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Bill Westhoven posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Father McLaughlin was a great director at Morris Catholic who brought showed us love and good cheer every day. We were fortunate that he kept up with us and made it to some of our reunions and seemed to remember something about us all. He made us feel like we mattered. And I know he also touched many lives elsewhere. Time to rest and collect your rewards, my friend. You've more than earned it.
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Deacon Jack Flynn posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
You were such a good friend. There was so much more that I had to learn from you. I am really going to miss that, "so what are you going to preach about this morning!"
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Maria Paslawskyj-Hillyer posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Father Tony will be greatly missed. Among the many memories I have of him one stands out in particular. Every home game he would go out and bless the goals in hope that we would some how prevail. That was true faith.
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Tammy Boyd posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Father you will truely be missed by all of us at the A&P you were a part of us each morning with your smile and words of wisdom for us....I can still hear you speaking a Barbara's service and how tragic her accident was and made us all laugh over a sad situation. May you be out of pain and rest in peace
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tom colombrito posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Ive known father Mclaughlin since 1969 my freshman year at morris catholic.what a great person senior year was the first year they ever had a soccer team and he used to come out and help out the goalies etc was neat to see apriest make a save in net, and recently he spoke so wonderfully at jimmy Mccloskys funeral mass,RIP Father
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Bill Healey MCHS '74 posted a condolence
Monday, October 17, 2011
Father McLaughlin was a wonderful leader for the wonderful school that was Morris Catholic in our era of the 70's. He was so devoted to the students and set the tone for a place I cherished then and cherish even more so today for the great foundation it provided for my life!
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Kim Persson posted a condolence
Monday, October 17, 2011
Father McLaughlin was a terrific man, gifted teacher, captivating homilist and a good priest. May all our memories of him keep us smiling.
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Patty Ferraris O'Neill posted a condolence
Monday, October 17, 2011
Fr. McLaughlin was always kind and generous; he was a bright spot at Morris Catholic and was always happy to see each of us. It is sad to lose such a good person but we are comforted by First Corinthians: “Love never dies.”
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Kevin Worth posted a condolence
Monday, October 17, 2011
Father McLaughlin was a kind and gifted priest. I am especially grateful that he took a very great amount of time with me in teaching me how to drive! Rest in peace!
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Donna Izzo Costello posted a condolence
Monday, October 17, 2011
Fr. McLaughlin will always be remembered for his cheerful greetings and that twinkle in his Irish eyes. My sincere condolences are extended to his family. Donna I. Costello, Municipal Clerk and Morris Catholic Class of 1963
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Carol and Ray Bsarany posted a condolence
Monday, October 17, 2011
Father Tony came to my birthday party and Ray's this year. It is a great loss for all of us. He was a good and Godly man. We will miss him very much. May he rest in peace.
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Ed Nelson posted a condolence
Monday, October 17, 2011
Father McLaughlin served as the principal at Morris Catholic HS during the late '60's and early '70's. He had his hands full most of the time, yet never lost his sense of humor, Irish wit and occasional temper. He was a quick "forgiver" and cared about his students for years after their graduation. We were blessed with his presence at our recent 40th reunion and now send our prayers for a quick journey to heaven. Godspeed - I am sure that you will be in heaven at least an hour before the devil knows you're available!
