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Scott Bailey & Family posted a condolence
Friday, February 11, 2011
Doug you were like a brother to me. We shared many good times over our 12 years of friendship.
From motorcycling to working on cars the time spent with you was priceless.
You were always thoughful and caring toward my family and it will never be forgotten.
It has taken me weeks to get the strength to not only find this site but to type my thoughts.
God bless your family and the ones that meant so much to you such as Laura.
Save me a space next to you and my dad- we will see each other again
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Lucia Gervasio DiNapoli posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Doug- You are in my thoughts and heart constantly. You truly had a special talent at keeping honesty, laughter and integrity as the core of who you were. No one can deny that. I will cherish the memories we had and pray that Laura and your loved ones can find comfort in knowing that you lived your life exactly the way you wanted, not what anyone expected! Rest in Peace...
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T.J. Esposito posted a condolence
Sunday, January 23, 2011
I had the pleasure of knowing Doug for the past 10+ years and I can honestly say he was one of the funniest people I've ever met. He brought smiles and laughter to everyone around and he will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his friends and family - Rest in peace kid...
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In Loving Memory of Doug posted a condolence
Sunday, January 23, 2011
To some Doug was a quiet guy, but I think he can best be described as a private, beautiful, and loving person. To those who had the privilege of knowing him, he was a good listener with a huge heart. Doug was fun, supportive, and devoted. He would do anything for his loved ones. He could make me laugh like no one else could.
While he was a private person, anyone who met him even once knew he was a car aficionado. Cars were his greatest passion, if he wasn’t learning about cars, he was working on his car detailing it, or cleaning it. When Doug was younger he would iron his jeans just to go out and wash his car because he had to be dressed nice to undertake the important task of properly cleaning a car. If it wasn’t his car, it was a neighbor’s or a friend’s. Everyone knew his passion for cars and many called upon him for help. He offered his assistance without hesitation. He was such a fanatic that others were embarrassed when he saw their cars dirty or uncared for. “Cars were meant for driving,” that was his motto and he’d drive just to drive.
His lunch cooler was his treasure chest. One of his favorite things to do was stop at the junk yards. He’d scavenger for small car parts. Next to the left-over Cherrios I’d find electrical fuses, gear shifts or little light bulbs; these were his treasures. There are a couple of car parts on my night table next to my Tiffany clock and they’ll be there a long time. I am lucky enough to have these little pieces from a beautiful person who made such a big difference in my life and the life of so many others.
Doug changed and upgraded cars more frequently than most people upgrade their cell phones. Each car needed the perfect wheels to match. Doug loved to do burnouts and one time at his friend Craig’s house he smacked up a wheel doing a burnout. To add to the embarrassment of smacking up a wheel, he had to call me to come and get him. We both thought this was very funny. Doug had a great sense of humor.
It has recently come to my attention that Doug was a counselor not only to me, but to many of his friends and family members. One of the beautiful things about Doug was that he kept their private business as quiet as his own. Maybe this was because Doug was very sensitive or a home body or big hearted. There are so many wonderful things about him.
Doug loved ice cream. All his friends knew if it was in their freezer when he came over, it would not be there by the time he left. He loved Toca Bell and Pizza Hut, they were like his middle name. Doug loved music with a passion but not country music. If any of his friends listened he was not shy about telling them how bad it was. So he was a little stubborn, maybe a lot. He planned to be at least an hour late for all family events and often slipped out undetected before the occasion was over.
Doug loved hockey (the Devils) and baseball (the Yankees). He’d try to impress me with his sports knowledge anytime the sport trivia was on. And I was impressed. Each time he got it right, he’d high-five me. These are some of the memories I will treasure.
I had the privilege of driving just to drive with Doug. I will treasure his little car pieces and the time we had together. If Doug were here today, I know he wouldn’t want us to cry, he'd want us to continue to enjoy the ride.
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Susan Wohland Gillece posted a condolence
Saturday, January 22, 2011
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to Laura and the family.
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Peter&Joanne Boyd posted a condolence
Saturday, January 22, 2011
So Very sorry to hear about your brother Steve. It's very painful for us when we lose a family member and heartbreaking . Take him and keep him in your heart and he will be with you forever. Embrace all the love around you and it will keep you strong and help you through this difficult time. We send all our heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. Bless you All.
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Leigh Breure Lukesh posted a condolence
Saturday, January 22, 2011
Thoughts and prayers for the family....
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Mike and Cate Perez posted a condolence
Saturday, January 22, 2011
Rest in peace Doug. Our prayers and deep sympathy goes to the Maresca Family.
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Frank, Vita Guardabascio posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
Doug will be missed very much. His jokes still have us smiling. V. and I have you and your family in our Prayers..
God Bless you Buddy.....
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Anthony posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
Doug, we never got to spend much time together, but the memories I have will always be precious to me. As many have said, you always brought a smile and laughter to those around you with your hilarious sense of humor.I've thought of you often, remembering me, you, and Nicky as kids, racing down your street on anything with wheels. We would always argue over who was going to ride the "green tractor" as it was a handful with three wheels and rarely made it to the bottom, shiny side up.Gonna miss you Doug. May God bless and keep you.
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The Gasparino/Greschler family posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
Tho it's been quite a few years since we've seen you, our heartfelt condolences to the Maresca family.
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Chad Goonan posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
So many great memories growing up with Doug.
From going to Dwyer, Copeland and watching 'DC Cab' with him and his Mom.
He and his entire family always acted graciously towards me.
I haven't seen Doug in years but his memory will live forever with me and the ones that love him.
RIP My Friend.
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FISHBANE FAMILY posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
OUR FAMILY WOULD LIKE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY AND VICKY WE KNOW HOW YOU ARE FEELING AND HOPE ALL THE WELL WISHES GET YOU THRU THIS TERRIBLE TIME
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Theresa Boattinit-Vaia posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
Doug, you are very loved and having you nearby has always been a great comfort, and alot of fun with your vehicles and car talk. You are greatly missed but I know you wiil always be close by.
Theresa, neighbor
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Maria Cianciulli posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
Dear Doug,Rest in Peace my love, You will be missed dearly, Ill never forget all the times you called me MOM. You were a great friend and brother to my son. All my prayers and love go out to Laura and Doug's Family . We love you........
Love, Tony Maria Anthony.....
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Mary & Bill Lashine posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
Tena, Nick & Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time.
Mary & Bill Lashine
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Dawn Norlander posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
Dear Laura and The Maresca Family, I am so sorry for your loss of such a precious person in all your lives. No one can really know the sorrow you all feel. But please know, caring thoughts are with you. I wish you all peace and comfort at this sad time. Laura, you and Doug's family are in my thoughts and prayers. With Deepest Sympathy
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Sara posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
Doug,:(
Who will make me laugh now as you did you "one liners" your sillyness you had a way with that laugh of yours that will never be forgotten. You were taken way to early . Rest In Peace. to Dougs family I say let the lord heal your sorrow.
~Sara~
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Robert Gallina posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Maresca family.
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James Ferrone posted a condolence
Friday, January 21, 2011
My deepest condolences go out to the Maresca Family. As a long time friend of Doug and the family, I have nothing but great memories of him and I growing up. He was a true and honest person and we always had the best times from grammar school all the way through high school. Even though we have not been in touch for some time, I will miss him greatly and never forget all the great times we spent laughing and goofing off during our childhood. One day we will run in to each other again and talk about those times. God Bless you and your family Doug. Miss ya man...
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Marie Hurtado Trillich posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Steve, I am so sorry. May God bless and keep him.
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Glenn & Michele DeBlasi posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Steve & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
Glenn & Michele
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Vin posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
You were a great person to know. You were very smart, and you always made light of all situations. Thank you for sharing some of your knowledge and a lot of your laughter. I am so glad we were friends.
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Jeanna Spezzacatena posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Dougie!! I am truly going to miss all our talks, inside jokes and wonderful advice you have given me. You were a great friend and I will miss you terribly. Rest in peace. Lova ya.
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Fortunato Montella posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Footprints
One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the LORD. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand, one belonging to him and the other to the LORD.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times of His life.
This really bothered him and he questioned the LORD about it. "LORD you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me."
The LORD replied, "My precious, precious child, I Love you and I would never leave you! During your times of trial and suffering when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."
I know this poem well, and I want very much to believe it is true. Sometimes when things are hardest I feel completely and totally alone. I struggle onward, trying to fight my way through to a brighter time. It can be easy to doubt that God is with me when I feel so cold and alone, but I realize that if I were truly alone during those times I wouldn't make it. I'm not capable of pulling myself through trials and tribulations on my own, so I know that God must be there, carrying me through—even when I'm too incoherent to notice Him. God is there all the time. It is my own senses that change. Sometimes I can feel Him and sometimes I can't, but God is constant and true.
Rest in Peace my dear friend Doug
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Jaime Keith posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Though I haven't seen Doug since high school...I have great memories of him from our high school trip to Florida. My thoughts and prayers are with the Maresca family and his friends.
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Fortunato Montella posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Doug, even though we spoke every so often I still have awesome memories of when we hung out. Doug you always had me cracking up. We were supposed to meet up Bro you wanted to see my car. My heart aches for you, your family and Laura. I know the angels have you and you are watching over us. God Bless you on your journey buddy. You will always be on my mind and you will always be in our hearts and memories. You will be missed but never forgotten!
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Jack & Elaine Doyle posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Nick, Tena & Family
With deepest sympathy in the loss of your son, Doug.
We remember Doug fondly playing football with our son, John Brian.
Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
With Love,
Jack and Elaine Doyle
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Kat Cavicchia posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Doug had a contageous laugh and a warm generous spirit. We spent many good times toghether with Lou, Pete, Nic and the gang. His texts would always brighten my day and make me laugh. I will miss our great talks about spirituality, love/relationships,and of course Patron. I can still hear his laugh and will hold all the nicknames he made for me close in my heart. I know you are watching over us-there will always be an empty space for you when we are together. -Killa K.
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Shannan Barkley posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
My prayers and thoughts to the Maresca Family. I met Doug the first day of Kindergarten at the Bus Stop on Cayuga and will always remember him with a smile.
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Sharon Beck posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Doug you will be missed by your entire family. Although we lived far away I always looked forward to visiting and seeing all my cousins, aunts, and uncles. I always remember you warm smiles and hugs when we did get to see eachother. The last time I saw you was as Aunt Evelyn's birthday party. Please give Mike and David a hug for me. Love ya!
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nicole capone posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Douggie, you were a really good friend to many. You were always there when i needed someone to make me laugh or just to get something off my mind. You will always be in my heart.
Star Girl
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Melissa posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Doug,
I have the best memories of growing up with you....from spying on the adults at Nanny's house, going down your driveway on the green machine...we always had a great time. I will always laugh when I think of the time April babysat us and let us swear as much as we wanted. LOL. We thought we were so cool. I will miss you! I hope you are with Grandpa playing cards and listening to his corny jokes. I love you!
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Barbara Gillen-Bruss posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
"DougE-Fresh" You will be missed by many. Keep watch over us.
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Brenda Stopa posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Although I have not seen Doug in many years, I remember his wittiness and humor along with good times we had growing up and in school. Doug had many, many friends and barely an enemy, he was just an all around great person. I wish I had the chance to have seen him in the past years but our paths never crossed. I will always remember Doug as the wonderful person I grew up with. May Doug's family and friends take peace in knowing that his memories will live on in their hearts forever. Rest in peace my friend, you will truly be missed.
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Heather Gawron (Van Hook) posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
I had known Doug for a long time and enjoyed every minute of hanging out with him through those great years! Although I have not seen Doug in many years, I am sure that if we ran into eachother it would be just like old times! I remember great times like going for rides on the motorcycles or just hanging out! Anything was fine because he always made everyone laugh! I remember going with the guys to Denville to go bridge/tree jumping and my mother warning Doug that if I jumped off the bridge/tree she would be mad at him because I was left in his hands because he was the only responible one in the group! Well, needless to say...I ended up in the hospital the next day for ruptured cysts and mom was not happy! This was a great time! I will NEVER forget you Doug~thank you for ALL of the memories!! Love you always!
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MAUREEN CULLEN posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
My daughter Erin went to school with Doug and my son John is a friend of Nick and Vicki. Although I din't know Doug I am so sorry for you lose. I know he will be always on your mind and forever in you hearts. You will be always in our prayers. The Cullen Family
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Richie Kirchgessner & Family posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Tena, Nick & Family, when I think of doug, I think of the pictures we have at my dads house of doug and steven wearing those brown towels like they were capes. Its been a long time since I have seen doug, I remember him as a great neighbor and a great guy. I'm so sorry for your loss, my deepest thoughts and prayers are with doug and you guys. Richie
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Andrea frankiewicz posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Doug...I love you and am gonna miss you greatly...years ago, growing up, I had a belt with my name on it..you NEVER let me live down that belt...I would hear the jokes about it everytime I saw you..."what's your name again, you don't have your belt on for me to remember"...I'm gonna miss you more than you know...
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Theresa,Carlos and Kids posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Dear Doug,
Im going to miss our talks and our busting on Carlos. Im glad we had that night together, all of us at our house eating all that bread LOL, laughing and busting around and that Rap music blasting. You were never an employee, you were our friend. Carlos and I and the kids will miss you terribly pal. We met your family the other night. What wonderful people they are. My heart goes out to all of them in this difficult time. Dont worry about Laura, she knows Im here if she needs anything. You know, Im the "Mama" lol. Grandma will miss you walking across the lawn in the morning. She said she will still make sure that light is on for you. We will always love you. God Bless
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Kevin & Jenn Graziano posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Maresca family.
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gabrielle caracciola posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
I will truly miss our talks and the way you were always there when I needed you. I love you doug and a part of my heart goes with you forever...
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Virginia Cruger-Corvey posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Dear Doug, no words can express the sadness and sorrow that I'm feeling!!!!! Though you will be missed with each day that passes, I will always have the fond memories of the endless love and laughter you brought to our lives.
Mr. & Mrs. Maresca, April, Nicky and Steven, please accept my most sincerest and heartfelt condolences. This passage is just a small remembrance of the everlasting footprint Doug has left in my life. I wish you comfort amidst the pain! My thoughts and prayers are with you always!!!!
With much love and deepest sympathy,
Virginia
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Amber Ward posted a condolence
Thursday, January 20, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to The Maresca Family - I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Knowing Doug in High School he was a great guy with many friends, I'm sure he will be deeply missed by all.
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Anthony D. Viana posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Our heartfelt sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief
and sadness.
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Gina, Paul & Kelsey Rolwood posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Tena & Nick,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Gina, Paul & Kelsey
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Jerry Mancuso posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
It was an Honor to know Doug! I thank Nick and Vicki for giving me the opportunity to hang out with Doug and them! You are missed but always in our hearts! God bless all family and friends!!
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Sudha Kantor posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
I worked with Doug for 2 years and appreciated his honesty, competence and willingness to help. I am saddened to hear of his sudden loss and send deep sympathy to his loved ones. Sudha
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Monica Del Rosario posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Gosh Doug it's been so long since I'd seen you but I asked for you so often..everytime I'd see your parents just how you were doing and what you were up to - You were such a light Doug. Such a great presence about you, such a great sense of humor, so loving, so caring - so composed, reserved but from one sec to another, you'd be making anyone laugh.. You were so humble: much attributed to such loving parents you had; such wonderful siblings. You made an impression on whoever you left, that's for sure. I wish we would have gotten more time to catch up - to remain friends but for the time we did have with you, I'm sure all who knew you are very thankful, I know I am. I am blessed to have known you, Although cut extremely short, you'll forever be in our hearts. We were all so blessed to have you in our lives -as long or short as it may have been. Thank you for being such a sweet soul Doug.
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mary Jo Piegaro posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Though we may not have shared memories, you must know you were Loved! I can not express the sadness in my heart.
The stars will shine brighter now that you are in heaven.We love you! aunt Mary and Family
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Nicole Cavicchia posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Doug - This is so unbelievably sad. You were taken from this world far too soon. I have to believe that God has a bigger and better plan for you. Perhaps he needed a little comic relief up there, that's why he took the funniest person we know. Thank you for being such a great friend to my brother. You two went together like peanut butter & jelly! I can't begin to count the number of times Lou said, "I'll see ya later, I'm going to (INSERT Taco Bell or Hooters HERE) with Doug." Haha. Pete & I will miss seeing you walk through our back door on the weekends and spending time with you and Laura. We miss you very much.
"Your Journey has just begun, life holds many facets - this earth is only one...for nothing loved is ever lost - and you are loved so much." -E. Brenneman
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Savino and Kristine Gervasio posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
"The Crew" had so much fun together. Our hearts are so sad right now knowing we'll never have those times together again. We are so blessed that we shared so many happy memories as friends. Those memories will be forever cherished. We will never forget the laughter you spread or the friendship we were so lucky to share with you. We love you so much and will miss you dearly.
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the byrne family posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
douglas was blessed with a truly beautiful family which we are honored to have in our lives. may god bless you and hold you dear, you will be missed and always cherished.
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Troy Roenisch posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Doug,
You are gonna be missed by everyone you know.. As cousins we weren't that close, but I am still gonna miss you.. Rest in peace
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Kevin Scully posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Doug,
you and i never met.. your dad and i worked together for far to brief a period of time.. i have no doubt tho that if you were Nicks son, you were a great guy... Rest easy and look down on us ... You will be missed here by many. God bless and keep you.
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Pete Cavicchia posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
As others have said here, laughing was a huge part of being with Doug. I'll never forget the life he brought any gathering, and his willingness to help a friend. Some of our best New Years Eve Parties included Doug and Laura. No on-line game was complete without Doug's relentless chop busting or various imitations to heckle us. Doug, thank you for being such a good friend to Lou and extending that friendship to me and my family. Nicole, Genna, and I will miss you. Petesy.
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Karen Van Dongen posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Doug will be so missed by his friends, and never forgotten. May he rest in peace and may those he leaves behind find comfort in his love and memories.
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jimmy masucci posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Riding with Doug was always a good time. he always kept us all laughing and the time would go by too fast. I wish a knew him better and got to spend more time with him.
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Celeste JJ Onorati posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
I met Doug when he was 23 years old, we worked together at CIT. His intelligence and determination was beyond what most would want to understand about themselves and life. He was fun…hysterical actually, caring and truthful. It was an honor and a fortunate happening to know him. My children, Jonathan and Aimee and I loved him very much. He will live in our hearts. always.
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Linda Talamini posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Dear Laura and The Maresca Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Doug. Please know you will have an angel looking over all over you to get you thru. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Love, Victor, Linda Rose, Francesca & Victoria
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Linda and Byron House posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
We had some great times and great laughs with Doug. Doug always seemed to make our outings very interesting…and fun. We all enjoyed ridding motorcycles together and going to bike weeks. Doug you will be missed dearly. We will never forget you. We love you!!
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Andrea Tobia posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Thank you for being such a wonderful friend to Lou, and for making us laugh endlessly. Yes, the two of you talked for hours on the phone like two chicks, but that's how tight you both were, and I'm glad you made the time count. We were so fortunate and blessed to know you and we'll carry your memory with us forever. May my thoughts and prayers reach your loved ones during this very difficult time.
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Camille Bigio posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Rest in peace. I know you will be missed.
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Lou Napolitano posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
So many great memories with my buddy. Andrea said we were like two "chicks" we talked so much. "Big Daddy" is gonna miss you more than you can imagine. Say hello to "pop" for me buddy.
Love ya bro
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Michael Fusco posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Doug, I hope you can read this and you are at peace where ever you are. I will never forget you, and all the great times we had together and hope to see you soon again one day. Love you brother
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Frank and Veronica Depasquale posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
We had the most fun times with Doug. Always laughing and enjoying life. Sharing the same interests was a big part of all the guys together. Doug will be missed dearly. We love you!
