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Michele Hart-Loughlin posted a condolence
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Anthony - I just recently learned of your tragic loss. May Tiffany's spirit live on vibrantly through you and your tow precious babies. - Michele Hart-Loughlin
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Regina Sander posted a condolence
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Our thoughts are with Anthony, Gillian, Liam and Tiffany's entire family.
The Sander Family
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Jennifer Fitzpatrick Geuther posted a condolence
Thursday, May 21, 2009
I worked with Tiffany at St. Clares, she was wonderful and vibrant. Tiffany and family will remain close in prayer.
Jennifer
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Lenore Bauer posted a condolence
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Dear Anthony, I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. Sometimes,life is just too painful! I shall continue to remember you and your dear children in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Lenore Bauer
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Hal and Meghan Budd posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
So sorry Tony for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers continue to go out to you and your children. Love The Budds
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diana posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
always Tiffany I shall remember you and my prayers for your family
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Jennifer Emdur posted a condolence
Monday, April 27, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. I only knew Tiffany a very short time as we took care of her Nutritionally, but I will remember her forever. May she now rest in peace.
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Alphonzo Ford posted a condolence
Monday, April 27, 2009
My heart goes out to you Anthony. I am greatly saddened by your loss. I wish you strength, hope and prayer to you and your family in this time in your life. If I can be of support to you, feel free to reach out to me.
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Janet McNally Walek posted a condolence
Monday, April 27, 2009
Words cannot express my sorrows for you and your children. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
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john maisto posted a condolence
Monday, April 27, 2009
i am so sorry for your loss, i know that the lord is taking care of her and her body is born again.
i will keep praying for you and your family.
john
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caren cagiano posted a condolence
Sunday, April 26, 2009
I was deeply saddened to hear of Tiffany's passing. She was a person of substance, strength, and courage. No words can convey the sympathy I will always feel for her family.
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Nicola Mantzaris posted a condolence
Saturday, April 25, 2009
Dave and family,
The service was lovely today, Tiffany was someone to be so very proud of. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Shair posted a condolence
Saturday, April 25, 2009
With prayers and thoughts from us to u and your family sweety
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Dale Julian-Bierce posted a condolence
Saturday, April 25, 2009
Dear Joanne and the Tiffany's entire family...although I never had the privelage of meeting this incredible woman, be comforted knowing how much she was loved by you and her family...your angel was called back too soon...but she has touched many hearts which is a virtue many never achieve in a much longer lifetime ...my prayers are with you all...Peace & Love, Dale
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Jaymes E. Pappas posted a condolence
Saturday, April 25, 2009
To the family of
Tiffany Doswell Oakes,
I was deeply saddened to hear of your great great loss which
also becomes a great loss to
those of us who were fortunate
enough to have experienced
Tiffany's presence.
Tiffany was my counselor at the St. Clare's facilities in
Budd Lake, and then in Cedar
Knolls, for approximately one
year. She was an extremely
personable, sensitive, in-
sightful, loving and dedicat-
ed professional, who provided
many solid and thought pro-
voking, as well as practical
ideas, to help me try to cope
with my permanent physical
disabilities. My weekly visit
to her office was being in the
presence of a shining light of stability that provided me
with a temporary safe haven
from the personal life storms
that were driving me against the shores of desperation.
A TRUE FRIEND
WITH A BEAUTIFUL SMILE!!!!!!!
Her presence will always be
with me.
May God grant you the strength
to get thru this difficult
time.
Prayerfully,
Jaymes E. Pappas
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john o'brien posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Tony,
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family at this time, and always. Very sorry to hear about your wife, and wishing you all the strength you need. I'm sure she'll be watching over you and the kids.
Fraternally,
John
Nu Class
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Judy and Jim Wymbs posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Our deepest sympathy on your terrrible loss to you and your children and families. May pleasant memories bring you the gift of peace.
Love, Judy and Jim
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Susanne Graham posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Dear Anthony and Family:
My deepest sympathy to you all. I hope it comforts you to know that you have many friends who are holding you close at heart and praying for you. May peace be with you all.
Love, Susanne
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Pat Dunn posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Words of comfort are inadequate at this time. I can only cry with you and keep you in my prayers.
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Arlene Aspell posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
It is a privilege and an honor to have known Tiffany, if only briefly, as her daughter Gillian's teacher at Scribbles Preschool in Mountain Lakes. When school began in September, it was clear that Gillian was a very special and creative girl. Many of these wonderful qualities must have come from her mother. Gillian continues to talk about her mom, so I know her mom will always live on in her heart.
I send my deepest sympathies to all of Tiffany's family and I will continue to help Gillian in any way I can.
With Love,
Arlene Aspell
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Patrick Mannix posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
While Tiffany is not physically with us, she is in the hearts of all who knew her. The battle she fought will give hope and inspiration to others to get through their darkest hours. Let her strength be our strength.
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Bev Dean posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Anthony,
I haven't seen you or Tiffany in years, however, I can't help being affected by her passing. I am truely sorry for your loss and can't imagine your pain. You and your children will be in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless you and guide you during this time and always.
Regards,
Bev (Rogers) Dean
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Nina Kooper posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Anthony
I am so terribly sorry about Tiffany. I know that your strenght will get you through this incredibly difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Nina Kooper
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Michael Torchia posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
I was an employee of Tiffany's. I can say that she taught me not only to enhance my management skills but everything in life from how to grieve for a dying animal to thae fact that Atlanta Bread Co. had Mr. Pibb in the fountain. I feel honored to be graced by just knowing her if only for a couple of years. I always say that tiffany was a sun in that the light came from within her. I learned to fine ttune my clinical skills from her. I will use the tools she gave me for as long as I am here. Thank You Tiffany. I am sorry for your loss Anthony, Gillian, Liam, Brigadeer General and Mrs. Oaks, Christie, Helen, Debbie and Denise and who ever else feels her loss. I only wish that some magic words or thoughts could ease the pain or the emptiness that he absence brings. Heavan has truly gained a beautiful soul.
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Sue Ferraro posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
I remember all the good times: dinners with the "OCD" group of friends, the beautiful wedding, brunches at the Tara and oh, what a great co-worker. Tiffany always went the extra mile. Her heart was full of love, compassion and understanding. She will be missed by all those who knew and loved her. I will miss her very much and she will be in my prayers.
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Dr. Cherry Miller posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
I worked with Tiffany for around 8 years. I saw her grow from a reidential counselor to a clinician. She was very bright, intelligent, and someone who cared about the patients. She put her heart into what she does. Words could not express how she will be missed. She was indeed a shining star.
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Nick Burlingham posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Although I did not know Tiffany, my heart goes out to the Oakes family in this time of extreme sorrow. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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The Twining Family posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
May you find peace in this difficult time, our thoughts are with you.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. May you find peace.
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Katherine Liu posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
My heart breaks to hear the loss of Tiffany. I have fond memories of us working together at St. Clare's and having heartfelt talks about our lives. I remember how excited she was on becoming a mother. I will also remember her laughter and smile. She was an outspoken and compassionate person. Even though I'm living in CA now, we continued to keep in touch and would see each other during my visits to NJ.
Anthony, Gillian, and Liam--my deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God grant you the peace, comfort, and strength for each day during this difficult time.
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Angela Mallon posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Anthony, I am sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you, your children and Tiffany's parents.
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Genny posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
On April 20, 2009, a very special lady joined God's legion of guardian angels. a special lady with class and a smile that lit up a room. I called her Suzie Sunshine. May the love and memories you have from Tiffany help you through this trying time. When I look up at night and find that very special bright shining star, I will know that she is watching over her family. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Chris Kent posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Tiffany,
You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers throughout this past year. I want you to know that my family and I have been saying a rosary for several concerns we have had in our lives. You and your family have been included as a dedication in our rosary and will continue to be so. I have prayed that God work a miracle in your lives and/or give you peace. I know in my heart, Tiffany, that peace has been granted to you and that you are in a much higher and wonderful place. Just as you accomplished so much and contributed so much to those people who knew you here on earth, I am also convinced that you are continuing your good work in your new "home". I shall continue to pray for you and your wonderful family through this difficult time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you always Tiffany. I know you'll be watching over all of us. Thank you for everything.
--Chris Kent
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Erika Marcano posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
My condolesence and prayers to you and your family.
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Provi posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
It was a pleasure to have met and worked with such a dedicated professional as Tiffany.
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Donna Riola posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Tiffany exemplifies professionalism and leadership in social work. Her presence, caring and laughter will be missed. My thoughts are with her husband, parents and children now and during the tough days ahead.
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Brian Clouse posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Our deepest sympathies extended to the Oakes family. Our prayers are with you. Brian and staff at Landscapes.
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Eileen Pergentile posted a condolence
Friday, April 24, 2009
Anthony, I am so sorry about Tiffany. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Gillian and Liam. Eileen Pergentile (Dutton)
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Kathleen O'Neill posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Anthony, David, Joanne and Christie-
I was so sorry to hear that Tiffany lost her valiant fight. I can't imagine the emotional weight that you must bear. My heart and prayers go out to all of you.
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Joan Guzzardo posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Tiffany has touched so many of us along the way with her sweetness and compassion towards everyone she met. May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead.
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Lori Donaldson posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are wtih you and your children during this difficult time.
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Nina Rifkind posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you Anthony, Jillian and Liam.
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Jo Anne Phelps Davis posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
My Dearest Jo and Dave,Christie,Anthony and Little Ones
My heart just breaks for all of you. I only wish I knew a way to comfort you.Certainly in Prayers and thoughts of so many. Sincerly Jo Anne
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Ann Marie Gigante posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Jennifer McCulloch posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs Oakes,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Best regards,
Jennifer
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KBLM posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.
Columbia BLM staff
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LaDeana Artis posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Although I did not know Mrs. Tiffany Oakes, I have known Anthony for quite a few years and he is a wonderful, wonderful person. Therefore, I would like to pay my respects to the family by lighting a candle in memory of their loved one.
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Kati Ivany posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Dear Anthony and Family
Please accept my deepest sympathy.My prayers are with you and yours
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Betty Hoskins posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Words are inadequate to express the sadness I feel for your loss of Tiffany. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very heartbreaking time. May God grant you peace to find comfort in beautiful memories of her.
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Tom Rosamilia posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
To Tiffany and her family and loved ones,
I will always remember your quiet dignity, class and grace. From the moment I met you at the Dutton Center I was impressed with how someone so young could be so mature and carry such a presence. You brought so much to all you did. I will never forget the mural on the wall in the playroom of our new offices after we moved from the Washington Building to our new digs! I'll miss you at the Dutton reunions. I know you will live on forever in the hearts and minds of so many of us and the impact you have had on people's lives will be your legacy.
Love,
Tom
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Grace Morales posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Tiffany it was a pleasure to work with at AH. You always had a smile on your face. You will be remembered and dearly missed.
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Emilie Gannon posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
i am client were Tiffany worked. she was a wonderful person. I was not an easy person to work with at fist but tiffany won me over and then changed my life. she tought me so many different things that i will carry with me for ever. i will always remember my talks with tiffany sincerely Emilie
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Bernadette from Careplus posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Dear Anthony,
I so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Bernadette
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Laura Parr Woody posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
I worked with Tiffany and Anthony at St. Clares/Dutton Center. Tiffany was always a breath of fresh air and a wonderful person to be around. I was at St. Clares when she got her Star, she was so proud of that recognition and of her family being there when she received it.
My best wishes to the whole family, my prayers are with you.
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Irene Bauk posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
I am so very sorry for your loss. Heaven just gained an angel.
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Claire & Wayne Wilson posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Though we really didn't know Tiffany, Wayne has known her family for more than 60 years and considers them to be friends he has loved dearly. Our condolences go out to each and every one of you.
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Nancy Serraino-Arluna posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Beautiful,inside and out, kind, compassionate.
A pleasure to know and to work with.
God Bless Anthony,her children and family.
My prayers are with you daily.
With sincere sympathy.
Nancy
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Robin Gershaw posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Joann and Christie - We are all so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Our thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathies are with your entire family.
If there is anything we can do, please let us know
Robin and Danny Gershaw and family
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kristine craudell posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with the Oakes family.
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Debbie posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Dear Joanne & Christie,
I am so very sorry to hear about Tiffany.
Debbie Stallings
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Katherine Sheppard posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
I was so shocked and saddened to read of Tiffany's passing.
I can't begin to imagine how devastated you all must be..and extend my heartfelt condolances to everyone.
Katherine
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Nancy Cook posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
I have so many wonderful memories of Tiffany. We had wonderful talks and wonderful lunches. Shopping for the new house. She was so special in my eyes. My smpathy's to you all. I will miss her.
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Lorna & Medical Svcs Dept. posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Our deepest condolences for your loss.
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Renae Frank posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Anthony you are your family are in all of our prayers.
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Jill Kostenbader posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Anthony and family - I am so sorry to hear of Tiffany's passing. I had the pleasure of meeting Tiffany and sharing many stories with her while she was a patient on 7C. I always enjoyed talking with her - she was so thoughtful and caring. What a wonderful mother, wife, woman...May your memories of Tiffany help you through this time...
Kim Reilly posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Jo-ann and David, I was very sorry to read about Tiffany's passing. I will keep you in my prayers.
Kim
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Glen posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Dearest Joanne and Family...
You are in my prayers and thoughts....
Glen from Moulin Rouge
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Diana Harsanyi Tighe posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Dear JoAnn and family, Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of Tiffany. All my prayers and thoughts raise you and all your family before the Throne of the Lord. He will sustain you. With much love, Diana Harsanyi Tighe
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Frenzi posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. I'm so sorry for your loss. I offer you my sincerest condolenses.
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Zantros posted a condolence
Thursday, April 23, 2009
I never knew Tiffany but please accept my condolences and deepest sympathy to the entire family.
God bless
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Sister Miguel Douglas posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Dear Tiffany:
You will be missed I will always treasure the memories I have working with you at St Claire's, your respectfulness and kindness of others. Your presence in this world has been a blessing to humankind now God has called you to a better place free from pain, may your entrance into heaven be one of great joy.
Anthony, accept my deepest sympathy May Jesus comfort you in your time of sorrow, may he guide you as you be mother and father to your children I willbe praying for you and your family
Sister Miguel Douglas
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Christopher Gibbs posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
You were taken to soon. Way too soon. Rest in peace.
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laura carite posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Tiffany has always held a special place in my heart. She is a powerful yet beautiful and gentle spirit. I am deeply pained by this loss and know that we have all lost an amazing woman. To Anthony, Liam, and Gillian may you hold her close in your heart and let her presence be known deep in your soul always.
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Susannah Pitman posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Dear Christie and Family - I am so sorry to hear of Tiffany's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Bethany (Estell) McNamee posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Anthony, I am so very sorry for your loss. We are all thinking of you and sending you prayers. God Bless.
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Janet Forte posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Anthony, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family..
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Linda Byers posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Anthony - My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. I know there are know words that can ease the pain you are going through at this time, but I wanted you to know that I will keep you and your children in my prayers.
Linda
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Nilda Domenech posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Dear Anthony,
Please accept my deepest sympathy. I know how happy you both were. I pray that God gives you the strength to endure this dificult journey. God Bless you and your little ones.
Love Nilda
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Howard Grossman posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
It's devastating to even think about this unbelievable loss. What a charming and dedicated person--to her family, to her work, to life. Whether Tiffany was helping her clients or painting the wall at Dutton with her magnificent artwork, she was a truly special person. My deepest sympathies and prayers.
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Merrill and Brenda Dye posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Dear Friends... No bond is as great as that between parents and a child. We can only imagine the grief and pain you are enduring. Your lives were forever changed the day Tiffany was born and now again with her passing. May memories of your beautiful Tiffany bring you comfort in the hard days to come. May God bless and wrap angel wings around you all.
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Jan posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
We didn't know each other for a long time, but I will always remember your beautiful smile and your gentleness. You will be truly missed.
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Dana Jaworski posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
My deepest sympathy to Tiffany's family.
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Denise Leone posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
My deepest Sympathy to the family of Tiffany, she will be missed by all.
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Donna Homberg posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
My heart aches.But I am grateful that I was privileged to have known her in this life. I will always remember her wit, intelligence, and energy.
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Anthony Castellitto posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
I met Tiffany while I was working part-time at Advance Housing. I had already been there for many years and she was brought on board to lead a program expansion. I remember her as a kind, soft-spoken, professional, caring, considerate, warm, endearing person. I am very saddened by her passing.
May the Lord give her loved ones the strength to carry on and may Tiffany's strength and character be an inspiration to not only overcome this tragic loss but to take on future challanges with hope and determination as a testament to the way she has lived her life and a tribute to her memory.
Sincerely,
AC
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Kristine Pendy posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
It was my honor to have known Tiffany through her sweet husband Anthony and too have had the pleasure of seeing her career and family grow. She was a wonderful woman and a dear colleague who will be so greatly missed by all! Her children are blessed to have had such a marvelous mother! We were all lucky to have had her in our lives.
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Roseanne Anderson posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Tiffany and her entire family. May the comfort of family and freinds help you through this most difficult time.
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Dudah & Mrs. B posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are not only with Tiffany - who we believe to be out of pain and smiling upon us all - but for your entire family as they deal with the celebration of a life, the sadness of loss and the Celebration and Wonder of New Life.
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Joann Mandara posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
My prayers and thoughts are with Tiffany's family as they struggle through her passing and these difficult times.
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Shawyne Orr posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. I only new Tiffany for a short time, back when she was a teenager. I knew her to be a bright and beautiful young lady. Our thoughts are with you.
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Maryellen Garvey posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
In honor of a beautiful and accomplished woman, I extend my deepest condolences to Anthony, Gillian and Liam. Tiffany will be remebered as a dedicated professional, but more importantly, as a wonderful wife, mother and friend.
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Barbara Greco posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with the Oakes Family.
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Dave Ofshinsky posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are wth you, Anthony, Jillian & Liam
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annonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
So sorry for your loss. I worked at St. Clare's in the past and although I didn't know Tiffany personally my heart goes out to all those who are mourning her loss.
May Tiffany rest in peace. God bless you all.
