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Liz and harry McCusker uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, August 5, 2025
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Bernard M. Russelman uploaded photo(s)
Monday, August 4, 2025
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Mary and Terry moved to Haskell, NJ a few years after my family did. My Mother was from Derry, Ireland, so they bonded as friends instantly. My Father always asked Terry to help with electrical problems at our house, and Terry always made the repair.
In 1990, I decided to make my first trip to Ireland on my own. Mary drove me (and my Mom as company) out to JFK Airport in New York City to get my flight to Ireland.
I promised Mary that I would try to visit her hometown of Carrickmacross, and I did.
The first two photos are of Carrickmacross in 1990. The sign with Carrickmacross was taken in 1997.
Rest In Peace, Mary.
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Coleen jones uploaded photo(s)
Monday, August 4, 2025
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Q: What will you never forget about Mary?
A: You will be missed. Still can't believe you are gone. Always in our hearts.
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Jennifer Carreau posted a condolence
Monday, August 4, 2025
I will truly miss you. I’ve always had fond memories of being at your house and with Valerie and Terry
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Lyn and Thomas McCrudden posted a condolence
Saturday, August 2, 2025
Happy memories of your visits home, especially last year when all of you were here
Memories of little things like the day Mary cleared the bakery shelf of the famous Belfast Bap(bread),her 2nd favourite thing from Belfast,Terry being the 1st,the delight on her face, a child in a sweet shop/candy store comes to mind
All the Happy times spent together, the conversations that have been had and of course the love given over the years are things that will stay forever.
To my uncle Terry, my cousins Valerie and Terry Jr and their beautiful families, our heartfelt sympathy, love and prayers at this difficult time
Sleep peacefully Auntie you will be truly missed. Lyn and Tucker
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Henry McCusker uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, August 2, 2025
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Happy memories of Mary during the families visit last year. Memories we will cherish forever.
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Henry and Elizabeth McCusker posted a condolence
Friday, August 1, 2025
Our deepest sympathy to terry and family on the terrible loss of Mary we had the pleasure of meeting the entire family last year on their visit to Belfast we had of course met Mary many times over the years and always enjoyed her company she will be sadly missed by everyone who had the pleasure of meeting her she will be in our thoughts and prayers forever
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Carol and Raymond Bsarany posted a condolence
Thursday, July 31, 2025
Mary and her husband Terry were part of the St. Therese, the Little Flower Ministry held every Tuesday at St. Catherine of Siena Church in Mountain Lakes. Terry, his daughter Valerie and grand-daughter showed up on Tuesday and I asked "Where's Mary?" Terry said she died - and I was completely speechless. My heart and my husband's heart broke. We know she's in heaven and now we must pray for Terry - it's going to be very difficult for him. I met Mary at Goodwill a couple of weeks ago and she was in wonderful spirits - looking forward to the Bishop's arrival on September 21st to celebrate the Feast Day of St. Therese. Ray and I can offer our condolences and keep your entire family in our prayers. May Mary rest in peace - in Jesus' arms!! We will miss her terribly!!
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Raymond and Carol Bsarany posted a condolence
Thursday, July 31, 2025
Mary and Terry were part of the St. Therese Ministry and prayer service each and every Tuesday at St. Catherine of Siena Church in Mountain Lakes. She and Terry have been with us for 4 years. On Tuesday of this week I saw Terry, Valerie (Mary's Daughter) and granddaughter walk into the church. I asked "Where's Mary?" Terry said she died. My husband and I were speechless and shocked. We all know Mary is in heaven and now we must pray for Terry - that he have peace in his heart and able to cope with this terrible loss. Mary was so looking forward to seeing the Bishop on September 21st for the Feast Day of St. Therese. We will miss her terribly. God be with the family - give them comfort and strength at this very difficult time.
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Cary Parkes posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 30, 2025
To Mr. Armstrong, Val, and my friend Terry,
I’ve always loved your family and the chances I had to be around you throughout the years. It was always something I looked forward to, full of laughs and cheeky banter. Upon hearing, my heart felt deeply for you all because we all know Mrs. Armstrong was truly one of a kind. She looks the same as she did 30 years ago when she would cook Terry and I sublime bacon breakfasts to cure us from the too much fun we’d had the night before. All I ever felt from Mrs. Armstrong was love, she was like an angel. Her spirit will live on amongst her family and everyone fortunate enough to know her and for that I’m grateful. My love and support for the Armstrong family is ever present.
Sincerely,
Cary and family
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The Nolan/Bolt families posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 29, 2025
Mary was a truly beautiful soul—overflowing with love, kindness, and an unwavering warmth that touched everyone fortunate enough to know her. A loyal friend and confidant, she made the world brighter with her generous heart and compassionate spirit.
Her deep love for animals reflected the tenderness she carried for all living beings, and her home was always a welcoming haven of comfort and joy. We will forever cherish the memories of our weekly visits, her comforting presence during life’s hardest moments, and the steadfast friendship she offered when we needed it most.
Though her absence leaves a profound void, her legacy of love, compassion, and grace will live on in the hearts of all who knew her. Our deepest prayers and heartfelt condolences go out to her family and loved ones during this difficult time.
Rest peacefully, dear Mary. You will be deeply missed, but never forgotten.
(Annie and Joe Nolan, Rick and Geri Bolt)
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Marie Dalton posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 29, 2025
Dear Terry and family,
I was very sorry to hear today of Mary‘s passing. It was a pleasure to know her and see her faithfully at Saint Catherine’s rosary prayer meetings every Tuesday. Blessings to you and your family.
With sincere sympathy, Marie Dalton
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Harry Armstrong posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 29, 2025
I met Terry, Mary and family just last year when they we're home in Ireland, I was told they we're home on a family holiday so I walk in on them at the Central Hotel in Belfast. I think it was the first time I met Mary with her family but after a short period I felt I had known them a life time. Now I am glad I met her and uncle Terry with their kids and grandkids that Sunday morning.
I will watch the service and pray for you all over the hard days ahead.
Henry Armstrong Belfast
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Hugh Mccourt uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, July 29, 2025
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RIP Mary such a lovely lady xo
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Danielle Sudak posted a condolence
Monday, July 28, 2025
Dear Mr. Terry and Family,
We’re so sorry to hear about Ms. Mary. She was such a kind and gentle presence, and we’ll truly miss her sweet smile and warm hellos.
You and Ms. Mary have always felt like an extra set of grandparents to Parker. He’s grown up waving to you both from across the street, stopping over to see Maggie, and chatting on the steps. Those little moments meant a lot to him—and to us.
We’re thinking of you and sending so much love during this difficult time. Please know we’re right across the street if you need anything at all.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Danielle & Laura Sudak
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The family of Mary Angela Bernadette Armstrong uploaded a photo
Monday, July 28, 2025
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